"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do women want

ssj245

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When women have men that they consider prospects or consider rejecting what do they consider as their requirements. Are most women looking for relationships from guys, while guys only want lays.

So a Dj who is after sex, and knows that if most women want rapport and the "feel" of being in a realtionship to have sex, it would be good then that a DJ learn how to BS his way into her pants.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ssj245 said:
When women have men that they consider prospects or consider rejecting what do they consider as their requirements. Are most women looking for relationships from guys, while guys only want lays.

So a Dj who is after sex, and knows that if most women want rapport and the "feel" of being in a realtionship to have sex, it would be good then that a DJ learn how to BS his way into her pants.
First off women look for lays,they are not all about relationships.

Depends on who you are,you might BS. I know I never personally lie to a woman because I would think it would come back to bite me in the buttocks. Women know who is after the quick lay and they go along with it if they dont mind it. That is all you need to know.
 

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hmm..

So women will know if your after a lay....then when you approach a women on the street what stops her from thinking that you want to get into her pants, because no matter how horny a girl is, if you act sexual on the street while sarging or anyother place other than a club then she is going to draw back am I right?
 
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