What Do Women Want?
Now theres alot of information on what women want, but this is my take on what women want.
WOMEN WANT A THRILL!
Why? Becuase women are use to guys being the nice, caring guy who will drop what there doing and go out the way for them, basically they will do anything the woman wants them too. Women take advantage of this, they think its great at first and they take and take and take, never giving, the guy thinks his closer to getting her, because its logic sense to him, he thinks "she'll see that i am nice and caring and will want me, all i have to do is keep being nice and showing her my affection."
But women get bored of this fast and the most common term comes up, lets be friends!
Women then go about thinking that every guy is just as supplicating as the next, that all they want is sex! Now it's true we do want sex, but women are picky when it comes to men.
You see, many men are mistaken when they hear this from women, they hear a woman say "All men are the same, they want sex all the time." But what she thinks and says is a completely different thing.
Women will be intruigured with a guy who is in touch with his sexual side and shows it without even caring what a woman thinks,rather then being intruigured with the nice caring guy, because women are wanting guys that are CONFIDENT. The nice guy isnt confident, he gets so nervous around her and he gets all these lust feelings about her and women sense this from a mile.
Ever notice why women read these romantic books? Now many guys get mistaken of the fact women want a romantic and they go out with there heart on there sleeves, trying to win the woman over, now this can win women over depending how you play it, but she will pick a bad attitude guy over a romantic sensitive guy anyday!
When women read these books, there not thinking about the fact, the guys a romantic, there thinking how much of a challenge and how unpredictable he turns out in the story, they dont know what is going to happen, the love the thrill of the chase and thats why women read so many romance novels, because....
THEY WANT THE CHALLENGE, THEY WANT THE FEELING OF CHASING A GUY
Women thrive on there emotions, there not seeking to be showered with gifts, they want a guy who can make her feel that emotion of ATTRACTION. Now dont get me wrong most guys can get a woman attracted,even the nice needy guys, but the woman is looking for the challenge, she wants to chase the guy and thats the reality of it.
Genuine breeds passion, i heared a natural say that once and i found this to be totally true, you see what he was meaning is, that women want a guy who can be comfortable in themselves and not fake any niceness or being supplicating, because when a guy buys a woman a drink, she instantly knows he his after sleeping with her, but with a guy who is in touch with his masculinity, he is a GENUINE MAN and he doesnt care how much he shows he is a man, then she finds that passion inside of him and no matter how arrogant he is, she will always find something great about him.
Now women will test guys, just to see if they have these traits, now lets see what women want and what women dont want..
WOMEN DONT WANT
Needyness
Clingyness
Too much sensitivity
Validation seeker
Weakness
Just plan "nice"
Predictability
Always available
WOMEN WANT
The challenge
The guy who is comfortable in his own skin
Unpredictability
The guy with the ability to give a woman a rollercoaster of emotions
Spontanious at the right moments
A little bit of vulnerability but not much, hence why i said little
Passionate about his hobbies
****y and Funny (Read David D for this)
The guy who knows he is the prize, he holds his own reality and she is just a guest (Read Swinggcat for this)
Witty
Not affraid to speak up
Interesting
There's many more but these are the main concepts, now try and mix some of the good with your personality, for more details on how to do that check the "Super-imaging" section.
Now theres alot of information on what women want, but this is my take on what women want.
WOMEN WANT A THRILL!
Why? Becuase women are use to guys being the nice, caring guy who will drop what there doing and go out the way for them, basically they will do anything the woman wants them too. Women take advantage of this, they think its great at first and they take and take and take, never giving, the guy thinks his closer to getting her, because its logic sense to him, he thinks "she'll see that i am nice and caring and will want me, all i have to do is keep being nice and showing her my affection."
But women get bored of this fast and the most common term comes up, lets be friends!
Women then go about thinking that every guy is just as supplicating as the next, that all they want is sex! Now it's true we do want sex, but women are picky when it comes to men.
You see, many men are mistaken when they hear this from women, they hear a woman say "All men are the same, they want sex all the time." But what she thinks and says is a completely different thing.
Women will be intruigured with a guy who is in touch with his sexual side and shows it without even caring what a woman thinks,rather then being intruigured with the nice caring guy, because women are wanting guys that are CONFIDENT. The nice guy isnt confident, he gets so nervous around her and he gets all these lust feelings about her and women sense this from a mile.
Ever notice why women read these romantic books? Now many guys get mistaken of the fact women want a romantic and they go out with there heart on there sleeves, trying to win the woman over, now this can win women over depending how you play it, but she will pick a bad attitude guy over a romantic sensitive guy anyday!
When women read these books, there not thinking about the fact, the guys a romantic, there thinking how much of a challenge and how unpredictable he turns out in the story, they dont know what is going to happen, the love the thrill of the chase and thats why women read so many romance novels, because....
THEY WANT THE CHALLENGE, THEY WANT THE FEELING OF CHASING A GUY
Women thrive on there emotions, there not seeking to be showered with gifts, they want a guy who can make her feel that emotion of ATTRACTION. Now dont get me wrong most guys can get a woman attracted,even the nice needy guys, but the woman is looking for the challenge, she wants to chase the guy and thats the reality of it.
Genuine breeds passion, i heared a natural say that once and i found this to be totally true, you see what he was meaning is, that women want a guy who can be comfortable in themselves and not fake any niceness or being supplicating, because when a guy buys a woman a drink, she instantly knows he his after sleeping with her, but with a guy who is in touch with his masculinity, he is a GENUINE MAN and he doesnt care how much he shows he is a man, then she finds that passion inside of him and no matter how arrogant he is, she will always find something great about him.
Now women will test guys, just to see if they have these traits, now lets see what women want and what women dont want..
WOMEN DONT WANT
Needyness
Clingyness
Too much sensitivity
Validation seeker
Weakness
Just plan "nice"
Predictability
Always available
WOMEN WANT
The challenge
The guy who is comfortable in his own skin
Unpredictability
The guy with the ability to give a woman a rollercoaster of emotions
Spontanious at the right moments
A little bit of vulnerability but not much, hence why i said little
Passionate about his hobbies
****y and Funny (Read David D for this)
The guy who knows he is the prize, he holds his own reality and she is just a guest (Read Swinggcat for this)
Witty
Not affraid to speak up
Interesting
There's many more but these are the main concepts, now try and mix some of the good with your personality, for more details on how to do that check the "Super-imaging" section.