"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what do women mean by powerful ?

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picard

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I have a question for you guys. I talked to this university girl who is 26yrs old. She dumped her bf for several months now. She hung out with him for long time.

she told me that she attract to guys who are powerful. He is not rich nor powerful in political context. He is just some joe smoe. Should I make a move on the girl. I am not powerful. I don't understand the concept.

What the Fck is powerful in ******** language? :confused: :confused: :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A Powerful Man Is:

Any man who is:

1. Rich

2. Popular (movie star)

3. Corrupt (drug dealers, criminal, crime sydicate)

4. Any man who rejects her

You can become powerful in her eyes, by making fun of her in a playful way, by being mysterious, allusive.

Sayno'
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Y'know, it would have been easy just to ask her to elaborate. :rolleyes:

Guys, women will explain themselve (ad nauseam) if asked.
 
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