"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do women find less attractive?

shinko

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Your'll gain weight for sure. If you use up less calories than you eat then you put on weight. But weight doesnt equal muscle and where you put it on, could be just be on your belly. then your'll still be skinny and have a gut on you. As for putting on sustained weight , training 4/5 times a week and eating all those calories i recon between 2 and 3 months before you start seeing results. Depending on if you've trained before or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wutangfinancial said:
I really wouldn't worry about it.

It's a myth that muscles matter....you're biggest problem is being 5'10....it's tall enough for average looking chicks, but most hotties go for 6'1+
I can't fix my height and I'm not wearing lifts. No one ever called me short nor do I feel short.
 

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5'10 is hardly a problem. I'm dating a girl whose 5'9 and another whose 5'8, both considered to be hotties. I don't see what the issue is really, even when they wear heals, I still act like a man and they act like women.
 
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