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Each woman is different and will want and will look for different qualities in a man. It all comes down to the woman at the end of the day and what she wants.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do woman want from men
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DonJuanabe
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You guys are all missing the most important thing: respect. No, not that you respect her, that she respects you.
If you are very physically attractive she will respect you. She will makes presumptions (e.g. that you are confident) about you based on those looks; if those presumptions don't hold true she will lose interest despite your looks.
Even if you are not considered good looking, if she sees through whatever relationship you have (e.g. co-worker) that you are THE ****ING MAN (e.g. super confident, or the guy who doesn't get phased by **** when other guys lose their cool, etc.) she will feel respect for you.
A woman who does not respect you will not have sex with you. She certainly will not want a "relationship" (dating, marriage) with you. If she is indifferent she might or might not have sex with you. If she inherently respects, in effect looks up to you, she will want you to bang the hell out of her.
If you are very physically attractive she will respect you. She will makes presumptions (e.g. that you are confident) about you based on those looks; if those presumptions don't hold true she will lose interest despite your looks.
Even if you are not considered good looking, if she sees through whatever relationship you have (e.g. co-worker) that you are THE ****ING MAN (e.g. super confident, or the guy who doesn't get phased by **** when other guys lose their cool, etc.) she will feel respect for you.
A woman who does not respect you will not have sex with you. She certainly will not want a "relationship" (dating, marriage) with you. If she is indifferent she might or might not have sex with you. If she inherently respects, in effect looks up to you, she will want you to bang the hell out of her.
ilikecharlene
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Nothing is really absolute in life.
PUAs talk about career, looks, confidence, status, financial security, etc. which obviously are all virtues. But not all women or people in general value career success, or social status. I think career success is fine and a good path for self-actualisation, but I wouldn't say person A who is a CEO or VP is inherently better than person B who is car salesman or a store sales assistant.
People basically overcomplicate dating and what women want. Simply be yourself, know what/who you want, and all will fall into place.
PUAs talk about career, looks, confidence, status, financial security, etc. which obviously are all virtues. But not all women or people in general value career success, or social status. I think career success is fine and a good path for self-actualisation, but I wouldn't say person A who is a CEO or VP is inherently better than person B who is car salesman or a store sales assistant.
People basically overcomplicate dating and what women want. Simply be yourself, know what/who you want, and all will fall into place.
I dunno, does that depend on her age, maturity and environment? What you are saying ideally should be the case if she doesn't have a lot of friends around her to influence her decisions, because there is peer pressure like in the movies- like she's really nice but she has a best friend who is a total cow- rather like Angela in American Beauty, who controls her thoughts and actions.perseverance said:
This is the reality I have to wake up to every morning.
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Rollo Tomassi
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Women want a Man that other men want to be, and other women want to ƒuck.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have never had sex. One poster responded to my post once that I was in a rut because women more my age (23-25) wouldn't want to have sex with a virgin.nismo-4 said:
Well, I couldn't have sex when I was any younger, because the girls I encountered at 18-20s were tough and just not interested- I mean I was depressed, and insecure also and things but that didn't matter- so it doesn't matter.