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Each woman is different and will want and will look for different qualities in a man. It all comes down to the woman at the end of the day and what she wants.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do woman want from men
- Thread starter brady1124
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonJuanabe
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You guys are all missing the most important thing: respect. No, not that you respect her, that she respects you.
If you are very physically attractive she will respect you. She will makes presumptions (e.g. that you are confident) about you based on those looks; if those presumptions don't hold true she will lose interest despite your looks.
Even if you are not considered good looking, if she sees through whatever relationship you have (e.g. co-worker) that you are THE ****ING MAN (e.g. super confident, or the guy who doesn't get phased by **** when other guys lose their cool, etc.) she will feel respect for you.
A woman who does not respect you will not have sex with you. She certainly will not want a "relationship" (dating, marriage) with you. If she is indifferent she might or might not have sex with you. If she inherently respects, in effect looks up to you, she will want you to bang the hell out of her.
If you are very physically attractive she will respect you. She will makes presumptions (e.g. that you are confident) about you based on those looks; if those presumptions don't hold true she will lose interest despite your looks.
Even if you are not considered good looking, if she sees through whatever relationship you have (e.g. co-worker) that you are THE ****ING MAN (e.g. super confident, or the guy who doesn't get phased by **** when other guys lose their cool, etc.) she will feel respect for you.
A woman who does not respect you will not have sex with you. She certainly will not want a "relationship" (dating, marriage) with you. If she is indifferent she might or might not have sex with you. If she inherently respects, in effect looks up to you, she will want you to bang the hell out of her.
ilikecharlene
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Nothing is really absolute in life.
PUAs talk about career, looks, confidence, status, financial security, etc. which obviously are all virtues. But not all women or people in general value career success, or social status. I think career success is fine and a good path for self-actualisation, but I wouldn't say person A who is a CEO or VP is inherently better than person B who is car salesman or a store sales assistant.
People basically overcomplicate dating and what women want. Simply be yourself, know what/who you want, and all will fall into place.
PUAs talk about career, looks, confidence, status, financial security, etc. which obviously are all virtues. But not all women or people in general value career success, or social status. I think career success is fine and a good path for self-actualisation, but I wouldn't say person A who is a CEO or VP is inherently better than person B who is car salesman or a store sales assistant.
People basically overcomplicate dating and what women want. Simply be yourself, know what/who you want, and all will fall into place.
I dunno, does that depend on her age, maturity and environment? What you are saying ideally should be the case if she doesn't have a lot of friends around her to influence her decisions, because there is peer pressure like in the movies- like she's really nice but she has a best friend who is a total cow- rather like Angela in American Beauty, who controls her thoughts and actions.perseverance said:
This is the reality I have to wake up to every morning.
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Rollo Tomassi
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Women want a Man that other men want to be, and other women want to ƒuck.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have never had sex. One poster responded to my post once that I was in a rut because women more my age (23-25) wouldn't want to have sex with a virgin.nismo-4 said:
Well, I couldn't have sex when I was any younger, because the girls I encountered at 18-20s were tough and just not interested- I mean I was depressed, and insecure also and things but that didn't matter- so it doesn't matter.