"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do unfaithful women do to show they want an affair with You?

jhonny9546

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This question is important because women often send many signals to men, across the whole spectrum. Some women are genuinely interested in a relationship, and they’ll show a certain kind of signals.

Other women, however, might already be in a relationship or married, the unfaithful ones. These women tend to send different, specific signals to let a man know they’re open to a sexual affair. In your experience, were the women who were genuinely interested in a relationship more direct, while the unfaithful ones were more indirect, or the other way around?

Disclaimer: This post isn’t meant to judge whether cheating is right or wrong. It’s only about recognizing the different kinds of signals women might send depending on their intentions and situations. Many of us believe cheating is wrong, others don’t. The goal is simply to discuss what happens in these cases. (For me personally, cheating is definitely something that ends a relationship.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gamisch

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Being desired as a man is great for the ego. Other than that it will also come with a load of issues. Mostly you will ignore women who come on to you. Because you see; women are NOT subtle about it when they like you.

Most of the time you will notice is when you're in a setting where it's unheard of to gauge whether she is interested or not. Best examples are work and inner circle. The gym arguably ( especially a intimate gym like a martial art class).

Remember; women will ALWAYS have a bunch of men lined up. Even if the " attraction phase " is just 0,01 %. A small Crack can lead to an entire gap. .but it doesn't have to ..

Best place ti be is to be confident/ c0cky enough to assume you're desired by most women, so you have no need to constantly confirm. Because that confirmation can lead to tons of problems. Think about fired/ death by simp..
 

sevbucmash

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women are NOT subtle about it
This!
If you're bad at catching subtle or not so subtle signals, they will tell you directly what they want.

What they do is they position themselves near you, dress proactively and talk sexy.

This is also how women that want something material from you communicate, so you have to either sh** test or ignore altogether. In latter instance they might verbalize that they want to f--- no strings attached.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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