"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joeblack11

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So I was sitting on a table at lunch talking to my friends when I noticed 2 females staring and pointing in my direction. Both were attractive & I had my one on one of all. So one of them calls me over and the girl I wanted to talk to goes in the bathroom & woundnt come out. I saw her again when I forgot something and had to go back to one of my clases and she did not for a second take her eyes off me. What is she trying to do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damaniac

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You made it seem like you were typing in the question just as it was happening.
but anyway
I cannot tell for sure but if I were you I would talk to her. It's not like there are rules to whatever she is doing.
 

AlexLefty

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she wants your nuts man...
go get that hoe!!
 

YogurtSlinger

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They probably were arguing about you being gay. One thought you were, one thought you weren't, so the one who thought you were double dog fire engine dared the other one to find out. Then, you come over to the table and don't hit on her or anything. That pretty much confirmed the one who thinks you're gay's suspiscion.

Next time they see you, you'll probably be walking around in gay pride shirts eating a giant pickle.
 

taporsnap17

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On a positive note, the one girl who left the table might think your hot and is really shy. Or she could have really went to the bathroom. girls are hard to understand so don't worry about it too much.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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