"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

what do u think

Joeblack11

New Member
Joined
Apr 12, 2010
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
So I was sitting on a table at lunch talking to my friends when I noticed 2 females staring and pointing in my direction. Both were attractive & I had my one on one of all. So one of them calls me over and the girl I wanted to talk to goes in the bathroom & woundnt come out. I saw her again when I forgot something and had to go back to one of my clases and she did not for a second take her eyes off me. What is she trying to do
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Damaniac

New Member
Joined
Mar 16, 2010
Messages
8
Reaction score
1
Location
Burbs
You made it seem like you were typing in the question just as it was happening.
but anyway
I cannot tell for sure but if I were you I would talk to her. It's not like there are rules to whatever she is doing.
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
she wants your nuts man...
go get that hoe!!
 

YogurtSlinger

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2009
Messages
162
Reaction score
3
They probably were arguing about you being gay. One thought you were, one thought you weren't, so the one who thought you were double dog fire engine dared the other one to find out. Then, you come over to the table and don't hit on her or anything. That pretty much confirmed the one who thinks you're gay's suspiscion.

Next time they see you, you'll probably be walking around in gay pride shirts eating a giant pickle.
 

taporsnap17

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2010
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
On a positive note, the one girl who left the table might think your hot and is really shy. Or she could have really went to the bathroom. girls are hard to understand so don't worry about it too much.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top