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what do u say when she say's "i have a b/f."

njitalstalian

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today at lunch i saw this chic. probably a 4-5. she wasnt that hot at all i just wanted to get a cold approach under my belt and practice so i can get ready to hit up the clubs this weekend....

im not going into the complete dialogue but at the end i said,

ME:"listen, i gotta get goin but how bout u give me your number and well chill sometime?"

HER: Im flattered but i have a bf.
ME: thats perfectly fine, well listen it was nice meetin ya, ill see ya around..."


i wanna know some different types of respones i COULD have given her besides that weak a$$ one i delivered !!!

Let me get some feedback fellas.....
 

RawkinKaoticStyle

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SAY?

dont say anything, that will just highten your chances of looking desperate in a way.

just give her one of your looks, and she might say " really i have a BF " and then walk away, lol


unless you really want this chick
 

jonny football hero

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I want to go out wiht you not him, I dont swing that way.
 

Mr. Latte

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"Oh yeah? Well, when we go out this weekend, I'll be sure to bring one of my female friends for him...we can do a double date."
 

Big-J

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Holy advice-seeking Batman!

To the Discussion Board!
 

PiHiPlaya

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How long have you had this problem?

I'm sure your boyfriend is cool enough not to be jealous enough to look over every single move you make and be all angry and pissy when you go out to lunch on a fine afternoon with a new friend .
 

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Whatever you do, just don't diss down her b/f.

Johnny's is gold when said with the right attitude/smile etc.
 

hardwork

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Take it away, Big-J!

Originally posted by Big-J
Holy advice-seeking Batman!

To the Discussion Board!
 

willo

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Con't
Her: "I'm flattered but i have a boyfriend"
You: "Then give me his number so that i can ask his permission" grinning "does he need to approve all your new friends?"

Cheers
 

Shadow Dancer

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I just say, "Ever thought about trading up?". haha

It's pretty ballsy, and borderline arrogant, but I don't care.

Anyway, their response has ALWAYS been to giggle and then either play along with it OR to giggle and say that she is happy with her bf. At that point I say, "hehe, alright, take care.".

I'm not one for trying to get with girls who have bf's so I don't care much for pushing it. And if she's just bullshietting, I don't care to push it either. If she doesn't tell me she's actually single when I tell her to trade up, I consider it better to end it and talk to someone else.

Easy Peasy.

*edit* Ah forgot...I sometimes give them a suspicious look like, "Are you trying to play a game with me?". And remain quiet for a couple seconds. They will say they really do have a bf or that they don't.
 

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I remember this one from here a while back.

"So, when are you getting married, then?"

According to the gurus here, that will illicit a laugh and maybe a punch on the arm ("You're so silly..."). Maybe then you'll have a chance to weasel your way in.


But so far, I like Johnny's and Shadow Dancer's responses the best.
 

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Con't Her: "I'm flattered but i have a boyfriend" You: "Then give me his number so that i can ask his permission" grinning "does he need to approve all your new friends?" Cheers

Willo is the man
 

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Say "I'm sure he's a great guy but I bet he would want to talk to me as much as I would want to talk to him, that's why I'll just talk to you. Now what was your number?"
 

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Here's one but not as good as "trade up"

It's not nearly as good as the "trading up" line up above. That's perhaps the best line I've ever heard to the "I have a boyfriend" line and I highly suggest you use it.

I got good play off this line when I was an AFC and I somehow blurted out a DJ line out of nervousness. The gal thought it was awesome and suddenly became interested:

Me: "Hey, can I get your phone number and call you next time I'm in town?"

Her: "Well, I have a boyfriend, but thanks anyway."

Me: "How about when you get rid of your boyfriend?"

She laughed her ass off. That's a good line, but only use it if you can't use the trade up line, that's just too epic to pass up. I plan on putting that in my DJ memory bank.
 

HuuBinh

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HER: Im flattered but i have a bf.
YOU: want a better one?
 

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hey ben, nice lines there.

I read these somewhere:

"look, i just barely know you, and you're already telling me about ur problems?"

"I am not looking for a girlfriend"

"If he makes you that happy, you can bring him along too"
 

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haha

I say depending on the girl...

I AM NOT JEALOUS or

sSO WHAT I HAVE A GIRLFIREND or

O you really tough thats what i meant..no sorry i wanted to see if you could help me with my survey for my class? in a serious way

if she says anything say its for GIRLS with BOYFRIENDS..

al that matters is getting that first foot in
 

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good one

Her: "I'm flattered but i have a boyfriend"
you: i asked for your number i didnt say do you have a boy friend
so give me your number or what
 
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