good question
I'm looking for an intelligent, refined and loyal beauty. Someone I can take to U St. jazz clubs one night to soak in the scene and a high-level foreign policy debate downtown the next to add something interesting to the conversation. She ought to enjoy all kinds of outdoor activities, have a talented creative streak to match my own, and an equally interesting life without me.
I like women who are a bit fiesty -- no doormats, please -- but only when they understand that a relationship requires only one man, which at all times will be me, even if we are hopelessly lost and there is a gas station attendant who looks to her like he must know the answer to everything from the meaning of life to where we are headed tonight, probably due to the grease stain on his jacket. Sense of style is critical; so is compassion, justice, and good judgement in practical matters such as when to stop talking.
As far as physical qualities go, she just has to be shorter and weigh less than me. A beautiful face and nice tits are not optional -- but poise and grace may compensate for many other deficiencies.
So, your basic perfect woman. No surprise I'm single
Note: Contrary to popular myth I don't need a cook (I'm very good) or a housekeeper (they are cheap) nor anybody to dress me (I put on the fine threads when I feel like it and walk around in a wifebeater the rest of the day; no woman has ever improved on this formula).
As for sex, I can't see ever putting all my eggs in one basket. If you offer a woman sufficient value you can keep a hot intern/secretary/maid/etc. for hardcore fukking. If your woman has confidence in her own value she will see there is no real threat from the airhead. In fact, I think it's a matter of respect not to use your main squeeze to satisfy your most base needs. The answer to the madonna/vvhore syndrome that women gripe about is simple: a man needs one of each!
Additional note: If my perfect woman wanted to boff the waiter or poolboy to keep things even that would be fine with me. But in my experience I've never been able to negotiate this kind of deal where we each get to keep one hottie on the side. I think this foolish determination to find ONE perfect person for everything is what fukks up most LTR's. Then you are guaranteed to be disappointed -- or else you end up breaking the promise and creating hurt feelings.
Hmm, one final note to self -- these kind of posts are an absolute waste of time. Daydreaming . . .
