"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do I need to become a DJ (not Don Juan)?

Adone

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I want to become a DJ, starting out at parties and maybe within a couple of years, I want to go to DJ at clubs.

What do I need in order to be hired as a DJ to a party?

Not only in terms of equipment, but also what kind of mixer (how many channels, lines, etc...) and other characteristiques. I want to use CDs, not discs.

I want to spend as little as possible, since I don't have much money at the moment... As I progress, I'll buy better equipments, but what do I need to start?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Adone

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A reply would be really appreciated


Thanks
 

Cheatz

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Well before you start thinking about hitting it up at clubs or parties you must do something that we've all heard countless times before, yep you guessed it, practise!

I got my equipment a couple months ago and i don't think i'm at a level to perform at clubs, maybe house parties BUT only with serato. If you don't know what serato is, basically you play mp3s from your laptop which goes into these "timecoded" vinyls and you're playing these mp3s as if they were actually vinyl. It also shows you on the screen how the beats are matched up and such, and it's fairly easy to beatmatch with the program, however without looking at the screen is still tricky for me because the beats go out of synch later on the track and you always have to adjust and tweak so the beats are in harmony and aren't out of order.

For equipment i suggest go for technics 1200's, it may not be the cheapest option but trust me, if you're in this for the long run get yourself the best. They are tanks and can outlast what any other brand can do. Mixer will depend on what genre you're going to play. I got a stanton smx-501 which is a hybrid club/scratch mixer for house,trance etc. and then turntabilism,hip hop etc. Any 2 channel mixer will do fine for you now but just take that into consideration before purchasing your mixer.

Anyway i'm in a hurry but i'll leave you with a good website to check out.

http://www.nem0nic.com/index.php?op...48&PHPSESSID=066772310444bda294aa79bcdb9e944e

Good luck on your quest ;)
 

Kazzanova

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yeah serato is a great program jus practice lots i jus started out too but i have made alot of connections already with club and radio djs here in vancouver so i pretty much have an oppenin at a club when im ready..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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