"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what do i need for college apartment

drdrew

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i'm getting a house with another kid in the next couple weeks. This is sorta a college thing. I'm wondering what i need to have in it to make it extra cool/different. I ran a search and didn't find what i was looking for.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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electricity is purdy kewl. make sure you get some of that.
 

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lets see... a nice collection of alcohol to get hoes drunk, cds to play and drown their excuses, a nice big cushion to cuddle on and shag them silly and some contraceptives to protect urself =x
 

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aight yo

u need some alchol,weed(to get hoes high), some cash for urself,some nice gear,some nice kicks,ooh yeah get a nice whip wit nice rims,get a gun(for protection) wait a minute ur white i forgot u ain't black never mind.ignore my post,dis post if for my bruthas and sisters!
The only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go see my $$$
 

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Go to IKEA...and binge...You'll be sure to come back with some super-post-modern stuff that'll set ur apartment on the edge.

-Damian
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keep it simple.

Make sure your furniture looks good in it. Make sure your TV gets ESPN cuz life sucks without football. Mcpimp, you're not 50 Cent.
 

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You need a nice big functional table. Something my granddad told me but still holds true. I'd get one of those "inverted U" sort of table (I suck at describing but you know what I mean). They have the space to keep things like mattress's and pillows underneat and if big enough can double up as a bed and couch. I'm gonna go with the assumption you dont have a few K's to drop (if you do then ignore me).

Skip the "home entertainment system" and get a computer. Sounds nerdy but a used P3 machine(you can get one prety cheap nowadays) can play DVD/CD/Mp3/Mp4/etc and most consoles PSX and down. Also speakers for computers tend to be better quality for the price(Altec Lancing are allways a good choice on a budget as are creative's). If your still with me then consider a homebrew "projector" as well. It's prety easy to do and can be hiden for a cheap(<$300) 64" high res display.(check Tom's hardware)

Going a bit survivalist, if cash is reall low, consider using concrete furniture(I got a concrete tiled U table btw). There prety confortable actually with the right tiles.

Ofcourse as allways, have a small fridge for booze and possible a charcoal walled box for dope(never know...).

Lighing is a very personal choice and I wont make any comments here.Good luck man!

Article for the projector
 

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First off, keep it classy. I can't stress this enough.

Don't hang pictures of naked girls, music artists, liquor bottles, etc. Every girl knows what these look like.

Instead, get creative. Something that will give you a conversation. For instance, if you went away on vacation and took a nice picture of the ocean or something, get it blown up and framed.

"Oh, that's a nice picture"

"Yeah I took it at so and so"

Go to IKEA like mentioned. Get some "fun" furniture. Maybe a few bean bags to lounge on. Everyone loves bean bags.

Candles are good to. Some people think its gay. But the right candle in a clean apartment, makes the atmosphere that much better and relaxed.

If you need a TV, go half and half with your friend on one. Buy a shelf model. You can probably get some really cheap with in the next week or so because they clear out holiday inventory. If you're going to party, no sense wasting money on an expensive TV if you think it might get ruined.

Don't bother with a stereo. Just use your PC to play music.

BUY PLANTS! Go to Lowes, Home Depot, wherever... Get some palms for like $25, and get some creative pots. Keep them in a sunny area, and water them whever the tag says. I have one in my bedroom, makes a huge difference. You can also buy like a $10 accent light to put behind the pot, and uplight the leaves and branches. That always wows them.

If you have a Sharper Image near you, go there for some cool things. Trendy clocks, phones, gadgets, etc.

If you get a hamper, get one thats not fishnet. In a nice clean place, the last thing you want to see is dirty clothes hanging from the back of your door.

You want your place to compliment your personality, and style. Pimp it with class.
 

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Re: aight yo

Originally posted by mcpimp
u need some alchol,weed(to get hoes high), some cash for urself,some nice gear,some nice kicks,ooh yeah get a nice whip wit nice rims,get a gun(for protection) wait a minute ur white i forgot u ain't black never mind.ignore my post,dis post if for my bruthas and sisters!
The only real pimps/players are blackguys&hispanic/latinoguys!
http://www.myspace.com/brazy_boi go see my $$$
Youre a fvckin moron. How about you crawl back into your ghetto slum and play with a gun and smoke some weed, hopefully youll shoot yourself in the face.
 
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