"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi,

I am guy in his thirties who is in a bit of a tricky situation, the problem is that I have become interested in a woman about 18 years older than me. I would love to ask her out for a drink sometime because I believe she is currently single. I don't however want her to think I am weird by being interested in her. I realise the extent of the age gap is large but you would never tell she was the age she is.

Do you think I should bite the bullet or do you think I should leave well alone.:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think she'll freak out at the thought of a much younger man fancying her or will she be flattered
 
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I have spoken to her a couple of times, and she always seems to enquire about me if she is talking to someone I know, but I don't know whether or not this is a romantic interest.
 
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IF YOU DON'T ASK HER, THEN YOU WILL NEVER KNOW AND IT WON'T MATTER ANYWAY, WILL IT????? NO NEED FOR THIS POST......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After people graduate from high school it's kind of free reign. I personally don't want to date 20-year olds again, but 25 and up, sure. I've dated women close to 50 and many in their 30's. Best not to put too many restrictions or you'll lose out.

Some women in their 20's look like sh-t, some in their 40's look great, and vice versa.

Best not to let society dictate your choices ... especially American society. We're talking about a society that thinks sitcoms are funny, fast food is good, and proclaims Brittney Spears can sing.

Knowing this, best to trust your own instincts. In the 21st century, I'd say most of the time American society is wrong on just about everything.

Ask her out and have fun.
 
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When I was 25 I was dating a hot little hardbody who was 42 (at least, so she told me.) Divorcee, fake tan, flat stomach, step-aerobics-chiseled butt, amazing t1ts, & she hadn't had it good in years. The sex was awesome and my buddies thought I was the coolest guy around. Go for it.

Worst case, she says no. Best case, she throws you against the wall right there and mounts you like the stud you are.
 
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