"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do I do when they blow me up?

silkyjohnson

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So I've got some dates set up this week with different broads. Three of them are blowing me the ferk up with calls and texts. These same three have also been getting really sexual on the phone.

My question is this: I don't have dates with them till later in the week and I have no time to go around fertilizing all of those strawberry patches until then. What do I do with all of their d*mn messages and calls until then? I don't want to lose their interest by going no contact but I don't want to over do it either.

My usual proportion is 2/3, with every 3 contacts they give me I try to give no more than 2 in return. For every 3 positive remarks or actions I try to reward with 2 of my own. The thing is some of these broads are absolutely blowing me the ferk up.

Honestly I like the attention and prefer the women who are highly interested in me, but I don't want to give up my frame.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Duke

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silkyjohnson said:
My question is this: I don't have dates with them till later in the week and I have no time to go around fertilizing all of those strawberry patches until then. What do I do with all of their d*mn messages and calls until then? I don't want to lose their interest by going no contact but I don't want to over do it either.
Man if it was me, I'd outsource these texts/calls to a call center in India!
 

SgtSplacker

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Even if you had the time to text with all of them you would see your game quickly drying up with every reply. Send them a couple replies and tell them to hold on a sec and wait for the next text from her.

what I would do at least...
 
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