"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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What do I do when they blow me up?

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silkyjohnson

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So I've got some dates set up this week with different broads. Three of them are blowing me the ferk up with calls and texts. These same three have also been getting really sexual on the phone.

My question is this: I don't have dates with them till later in the week and I have no time to go around fertilizing all of those strawberry patches until then. What do I do with all of their d*mn messages and calls until then? I don't want to lose their interest by going no contact but I don't want to over do it either.

My usual proportion is 2/3, with every 3 contacts they give me I try to give no more than 2 in return. For every 3 positive remarks or actions I try to reward with 2 of my own. The thing is some of these broads are absolutely blowing me the ferk up.

Honestly I like the attention and prefer the women who are highly interested in me, but I don't want to give up my frame.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The Duke

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silkyjohnson said:
My question is this: I don't have dates with them till later in the week and I have no time to go around fertilizing all of those strawberry patches until then. What do I do with all of their d*mn messages and calls until then? I don't want to lose their interest by going no contact but I don't want to over do it either.
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Man if it was me, I'd outsource these texts/calls to a call center in India!
 
SgtSplacker

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Even if you had the time to text with all of them you would see your game quickly drying up with every reply. Send them a couple replies and tell them to hold on a sec and wait for the next text from her.

what I would do at least...
 
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