"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do i do next?

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I FOUND ASKING ABOUT A WOMAN S CHOICE OF YOGHOURTS WORKS WELL FOR ME
"are those youghourts real special?
' i like them
'do you use them to make cakes also? BLA BLA BLA
ok the convo gets going nicely but the thing is HOW DO I TRANSITION OFF TO MAKING SEDUCTIVE OR RATHER HOW DO I MANAGE TO INVITE THIS HB TO THE LOCAL BAR?
THANX 4 YOGHOURT SORRY YOUR HELP
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Juan and only

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Basically just fluff for a while, use a bit of c&f/whatever. When things seem to going well and you've talked for a few minutes, just say something like "you seem *appropriate compliment*, do you wanna go for a drink/meal/coffee tonight/for lunch/whenever".
 

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well u could say ; you know youghurt is a great afrodisiac, same like oysters... Wanna put som on me nipples and lick it off ??does that make you horny baby , (using a fat scottish mans accent) =.o

hehehe
just a joke so dont flame me =P
 

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You only ask on her choice of yogurt to get her attention and if that works for you thats fine. You dont have to suddenly switch to "OH go to bed with me". You use that to get her attention then you go oh by the way whats your name? Im so and so. Then you can change the convo to whatever you like. From there you can talk to her about anything including taking her to a bar/resturant and banging her like a beast afterwards.


Btw dont type in caps...It pisses people off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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