"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do I do next ...

Hamer

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hey! guys,

I really dont have much problem getting number or e-mails from girls...my problem is ...after two or three days calling or emailing often not getting any respond ....few of them respond my call/SMS and say that they are too busy or some thing else... How do u guys see this problems ?...is there any solution I should try out...?Thanx in advance...

D.L
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NewMan

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Having little info, I'd say your spending to much time calling/emailing them. The only time you want to contact them is to set up a date.
 
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