Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What do i do in this situation?!?!

crazyman11

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I've been getting a lot of "I think you're cute"'s from girls lately. I have no idea how to respond to it, besides smile and say thank you. Is that good? Because after i do that, i get quiet. Is there a better response?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theunflushables

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quote this word for word. "So are you, lets go fvck!"
 

crazyman11

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Dude, i'm in high school. If i said that, then i would get slapped the $#!% out of me
 

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The reason I asked this question, is because a girl told me that today on aim. I usually just say thank you and go on, but this time i thought if i should say "I think you are too(with a smiley face, she told me on AIM)". Would that have been the right thing to do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theunflushables

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The "you are too" part. Drop the "I think" part. It will make you sound confident.
 

crazyman11

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Awwww crap. Then what do i say now? She told me it like 4 hours ago, and we haven't said anything to each other for like 2. How do i get back in the convo without the awkwardness?
 

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sign off (or block her) for 5 min, sign back in or unblock her then just say hey and start it over again
 

crazyman11

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wtf, She said her friend was on her laptop... Which is believable, because she asked for my myspace, and she(my friend) already has me as one of her friends

Anyways, i would have looked like a total ass if i told her she was cute(which actually isn't a lie)
 

Themanthatcan

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TURN IT UP

The "atleast one of us is" is good
Or "I know" with a wink and a smile

Or just tell her that she wants you for your body and tell her your not a piece of meat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sam3083

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Say, "flattery wont get you in my pants. But stuff will, go out and buy me something". Or something like that, its one of David D's, I think. Definitely not me.
 
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