"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do I do if the chick is with someone else?

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Ok, so recently I got to know this chick from college. Got her number and several days later, she came onto me. And then, she told me that she was seeing someone else. It was soon evident that she was not going to give him up for me and she refuses to go out with me behind his back.

To make a long story short, we talked and we agreed that its best that the both of us move on. So we did. I said that I cannot be "friends" with her.

Did I do the right thing? I can sense that her interest level is still pretty high and I still see her in school two times a week. What do I do from here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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her interest level is not high. that's just your ego talking. Next her. You remind me of this chick that wanted to eff me, because I gamed her for like 2 weeks till she became obsessed with me and finally admitted it and told my friends etc. Of course when I told her I have a gf she still kept talking about it with my friends thinking she could "steal me away". Just because someone gives you their number/acts nice or even flirty doesn't mean there is IL. Otherwise she'd have effed you by now :D
 
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Originally posted by johnfjr
her interest level is not high. that's just your ego talking. Next her. You remind me of this chick that wanted to eff me, because I gamed her for like 2 weeks till she became obsessed with me and finally admitted it and told my friends etc. Of course when I told her I have a gf she still kept talking about it with my friends thinking she could "steal me away". Just because someone gives you their number/acts nice or even flirty doesn't mean there is IL. Otherwise she'd have effed you by now :D
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I don't know. It could be my ego but I am pretty sure that it WAS high. Perhaps, its not as high anymore, thanks to my AFC self surfacing again during the "closing moments" of the "relationsip". (eg. acting needy, goddamit)

However, my instincts are telling me that her interest level is still quite high. And I'm rarely wrong in this area.
 
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Its a no-go. I see two scenarios:

1. Its college. People are social you do exchange numbers. Basically, you do have friends who you don't fvck. But question, what constitutes 'coming on to me' here

2. She loves the attention. She wants the best of both worlds. She'll split with her BF eventually but not right now, but do you really want to concern yourself with a girl whose values are questionable?


Also, you use the term 'relationship'. I can't see how there is a relationship here?
 
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It was soon evident that she was not going to give him up for me and she refuses to go out with me behind his back.

Why are you even wasting time thinking about her then? You know what to do...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My 2c...

Dont watse your time with ONE girl.. move on... and if something happens with her, then great, if not, ur syill macking other girls... so dont end things with her... keep the option open.... but also mack other girls.


Laterz...
 
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SAnctity

Yep pretty much man these guys summed it up for you-move on-or at least occupy your time with other girls..
 
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Originally posted by ajncaa
Also, you use the term 'relationship'. I can't see how there is a relationship here?
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Which is why I used quotation marks when saying relationships.

Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. It's so simple yet I had failed to see it. I'm moving on....
 
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kewl....

Originally posted by Sanctity
Which is why I used quotation marks when saying relationships.

Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. It's so simple yet I had failed to see it. I'm moving on....
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Good luck for the future man...


Laterz...
 
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This girl obviously enjoys the attention she gets when she gets some poor sap all riled up, like she got you.

That is probably her normal game. Pick a chump out and come on to him and make him fall for her, only to turn him down. It makes her feel attractive and needed.

Obviously her boyfriend must be the realman/jerk/type of guy who keeps her on a string like she does the poor suckers she does it back too.

Ignore her and don't waste your time ever again with this c*ck teaser.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NEXT HER. THe next time you go for a chick, dont just go for her. Have more than 1 option available to you, so you can choose at your leisure.
 
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