What do I do if the chick is with someone else?

[Sanctity]

Ok, so recently I got to know this chick from college. Got her number and several days later, she came onto me. And then, she told me that she was seeing someone else. It was soon evident that she was not going to give him up for me and she refuses to go out with me behind his back.

To make a long story short, we talked and we agreed that its best that the both of us move on. So we did. I said that I cannot be "friends" with her.

Did I do the right thing? I can sense that her interest level is still pretty high and I still see her in school two times a week. What do I do from here?

 

[johnfjr]

her interest level is not high. that's just your ego talking. Next her. You remind me of this chick that wanted to eff me, because I gamed her for like 2 weeks till she became obsessed with me and finally admitted it and told my friends etc. Of course when I told her I have a gf she still kept talking about it with my friends thinking she could "steal me away". Just because someone gives you their number/acts nice or even flirty doesn't mean there is IL. Otherwise she'd have effed you by now

 

[Sanctity]

Originally posted by johnfjr
her interest level is not high. that's just your ego talking. Next her. You remind me of this chick that wanted to eff me, because I gamed her for like 2 weeks till she became obsessed with me and finally admitted it and told my friends etc. Of course when I told her I have a gf she still kept talking about it with my friends thinking she could "steal me away". Just because someone gives you their number/acts nice or even flirty doesn't mean there is IL. Otherwise she'd have effed you by now

I don't know. It could be my ego but I am pretty sure that it WAS high. Perhaps, its not as high anymore, thanks to my AFC self surfacing again during the "closing moments" of the "relationsip". (eg. acting needy, goddamit)

However, my instincts are telling me that her interest level is still quite high. And I'm rarely wrong in this area.

 

[ajncaa]

Its a no-go. I see two scenarios:

1. Its college. People are social you do exchange numbers. Basically, you do have friends who you don't fvck. But question, what constitutes 'coming on to me' here

2. She loves the attention. She wants the best of both worlds. She'll split with her BF eventually but not right now, but do you really want to concern yourself with a girl whose values are questionable?


Also, you use the term 'relationship'. I can't see how there is a relationship here?

 

[biker_gixxer]

It was soon evident that she was not going to give him up for me and she refuses to go out with me behind his back.

Why are you even wasting time thinking about her then? You know what to do...

 

[Climax]

My 2c...

Dont watse your time with ONE girl.. move on... and if something happens with her, then great, if not, ur syill macking other girls... so dont end things with her... keep the option open.... but also mack other girls.


Laterz...

 

[Freeman]

SAnctity

Yep pretty much man these guys summed it up for you-move on-or at least occupy your time with other girls..

 

[Sanctity]

Originally posted by ajncaa
Also, you use the term 'relationship'. I can't see how there is a relationship here?

Which is why I used quotation marks when saying relationships.

Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. It's so simple yet I had failed to see it. I'm moving on....

 

[Climax]

kewl....

Originally posted by Sanctity
Which is why I used quotation marks when saying relationships.

Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. It's so simple yet I had failed to see it. I'm moving on....

Good luck for the future man...


Laterz...

 

[MrHarris]

This girl obviously enjoys the attention she gets when she gets some poor sap all riled up, like she got you.

That is probably her normal game. Pick a chump out and come on to him and make him fall for her, only to turn him down. It makes her feel attractive and needed.

Obviously her boyfriend must be the realman/jerk/type of guy who keeps her on a string like she does the poor suckers she does it back too.

Ignore her and don't waste your time ever again with this c*ck teaser.

 

[Don_Joffe]

NEXT HER. THe next time you go for a chick, dont just go for her. Have more than 1 option available to you, so you can choose at your leisure.