"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do i do if i feel i am gettin the cold shoulder

dj_shy

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i am with this girl everything was goin right and then all of a sudden she sez that the distance between us is too much and she doesnt see it working, we both make the effort but the thing is we want to see eachother so much and we cant. it gets frustratin, we talked about this yesterday and our conclusion was to grow frum this and move away frum the distance makin us grow frum this and learn from it. and she was cool with it she even sounded sincere. this morning it seemed like she she still wasnt shur?...what do i do?...i am lost...i really care for this girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ChenCristos

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so is there and emotional or physical distance between you two lovebirds?
she probobly trying to end it. So what you should do is just go with the flow and don't make too much of a fuss of things with her. stay cool and be ready to have things end. with the not giving a **** attitude maybe her IL will go up again in the future or it may not but nonetheless you'll be solid, instead of an emotional mess
 

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^i dont think its anything to do with how u're playing it. ive been in that situation, its just circimstances man. but heres the part that sucks, theres nothing u can do about it unless u both free up your schedule and make compromises to see each other
 

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I would stop posting in tips.

Now for the advice, you need to be clear on what is happenning and all background info in order to get useful advice. From what I read, she is trying to end it.
You make time if you really care.
 
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