i am with this girl everything was goin right and then all of a sudden she sez that the distance between us is too much and she doesnt see it working, we both make the effort but the thing is we want to see eachother so much and we cant. it gets frustratin, we talked about this yesterday and our conclusion was to grow frum this and move away frum the distance makin us grow frum this and learn from it. and she was cool with it she even sounded sincere. this morning it seemed like she she still wasnt shur?...what do i do?...i am lost...i really care for this girl.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do i do if i feel i am gettin the cold shoulder
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