Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What do i do fellas?
- Thread starter Zeda94
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
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You have ZERO game.
You can not run NC on a girl who has no emotional investment in you and expect her to suck your kock.
You also accepted LJBF.
You have ZERO game. Read the DJ Bible.
Exodus
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
I assume you have seen the sticky for the Don Juan Bible already.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This is what I* would do. I suggest you don't do this because of your lack of theory knowledge. I would call her up and say "I can't be friends with you, so if you change your mind, call me up and you can buy me dinner". I would do that and move on to the next female.
Read the DJ bible in its entirety as a start. A lot of good men have contributed to it. Help continue the tradition
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Master Don Juan
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Here's some tips on your current situation to help you get out of it as the DJ Bible is a generic overview of game.Zeda94 said:
* One should NEXT a woman than to even be FRIENDZONED (unless your only game is to be an orbiter to wait until she has a weak moment, that would be a truly sad state)
* You can not run NO CONTACT on a woman unless there has been an extensive emotional investment in you from her, or physical intimacy to a large degree - then it leads to a breakup of some sort. EVEN THEN, NC is really for a man to FORGIVE AND FORGET a woman. There is no guarantee a woman is going to chase you after you apply NC - EVER.
* A woman of HIGH INTEREST will never confuse you or reject you when you ask her out. If she truly can not make the time/date you set for the date, she will COUNTER OFFER on the spot. If she does not counter offer, NEXT.
* Learn to have more than just ONE woman in your life, DIVERSIFICATION IN YOUR PORTFOLIO is the successful scheme of making investment in multiple women so you do not end up with ONEITIS and on this forum.
* If a woman doesn't give you what you want, learn to NEXT her immediately and move on - if she has high interest, she will chase you then.
* You can not RUN SUCCESSFUL GAME if you don't have yourself as the PRIZE in your mind, and have thoroughly REVAMPED your state of manhood to RUN GAME. Learn to dress with style, gain confidence, take care of your appearance, learn charm/humor, and learn TO WALK AWAY FROM WOMEN AT ANYTIME.
* Get REALLY comfortable with being rejected from women - as with ALL FEARS, it becomes a part of life slowly but surely the more you are EXPOSED to the things you FEAR. After enough rejections (and not taking it personally), you will learn it is down to a NUMBERS game. The BEST GAME a REAL DJ can run will STILL BE REJECTED by an average looking woman. A REAL DJ will not take that personally because he realizes, it is NOT ABOUT HIM when he is rejected. There are a thousand circumstances in that woman's life that could have caused the rejection, even with PERFECT game.
Be Well.
Exodus
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
"Mass Exodus, next that cvnt"
I'd buy it. Anyways I strongly suggest reading the bible because there is a lot more in there than what is being posted here and it will give you a lot of insight on what different problems you can run into, how to avoid them, and above it will reinforce overtime the most important mindset you need to hold.
Your life is for you and you alone. Every woman you date, every woman you fvck is just coming into your life because they want a piece of it. If you give them all you got without getting anything back then you will never get anywhere with women. Get more things going in your life and you will have more to offer to women. Thus your selection will start to grow all on its own without effort on your part. Just read the bible man it explains everything.
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Hey Zeda94,Zeda94 said:
This is not a 'Pick-Up Artist' forum or place of PUA tactics. PUA seeks to take advantage of women and are labeled as 'Players'.
We are just simple ordinary men (most of us, at least, I am federal govt. manager - a few are PUA origin) who have went through life getting bashed by women and outpowered/outgunned mentally and emotionally.
A lot of us who are now into our years of wisdom (myself, at 41yrs old) have learned life the hard way - from AFC-ville to becoming a true DJ slowly over the years, yearns to help other men to avoid the mistakes we made ourselves in this journey called life.
I was once beaten down to the lowest point in my manhood several years ago by a very emotionally, mentally, and physically damaging woman (BPD-prone) that drove me to rise up to perfection as a man from AFC-ville after I found this site. Sometimes a man must be totally destroyed in order to be built on good foundations bottoms up. This forum is what transformed me from that sad state of chumphood, and has inspired me to spend my time here to answer questions and STILL LEARN FROM OTHER MEN (you never stop, don't let your ego think you know everything, ever - that's the day you become arrogant and prideful).
My only hope in writing the Great Gatsby episodes here is to help other men reach their greatest potential - as I hope this forum also help as many men to reach and become the best human being they can be. This can only be achieved when YOU ARE HAPPY and ENJOY YOUR LIFE.
One can not do so from a place of powerlessness, especially in the face of women. Women are what they are, neither good or bad for the most part - we must seek to understand them and learn to live in peace with them at the minimum - at the maximum, we can be happy with them in life.
Thanks for the good vibes, Thundernuts - you will come to take care of other men as I have, if not already starting to.
Be well.
Exodus
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.