What do i do fellas?

[Zeda94]

I've been "just friends" with this girl I've asked out for about and a half and a week ago I started ignoring her. Question is should I wait till she responds or should I just text her as if nothings happened?

 

[GotED?]

This is AFC-ville at its lowest depth.

You have ZERO game.

You can not run NC on a girl who has no emotional investment in you and expect her to suck your kock.

You also accepted LJBF.

You have ZERO game. Read the DJ Bible.

Exodus

 

[Zeda94]

Dude that actually made me laugh. But very true. is their a download link you could give me? I'm new

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Take the next few days off to swallow the red pill.. digest it.. and live it. There is no going back once you have seen the light.

I assume you have seen the sticky for the Don Juan Bible already.

 

[fuko2007]

Wow, that sucks. Friendzoned and never got to bang her atleast? Thats a hard one to come back from man, you have a lot of work to do. i agree with goted you need to read the bible.You got to learn how to break down walls as friends like touching, and convo etc. without creeping her out. And let her see you out with other girls since your just "friends". Her reaction will tell you alot.

 

[Icegreen]

It's a long a** road brother. Invest your time in learning all the theory of the DJ. It may take decades for you to master in application, but its worth it. Don't think with your emotions, think with your d*ck.

This is what I* would do. I suggest you don't do this because of your lack of theory knowledge. I would call her up and say "I can't be friends with you, so if you change your mind, call me up and you can buy me dinner". I would do that and move on to the next female.

Read the DJ bible in its entirety as a start. A lot of good men have contributed to it. Help continue the tradition

 

[GotED?]

Dude that actually made me laugh. But very true. is their a download link you could give me? I'm new

Here's some tips on your current situation to help you get out of it as the DJ Bible is a generic overview of game.

* One should NEXT a woman than to even be FRIENDZONED (unless your only game is to be an orbiter to wait until she has a weak moment, that would be a truly sad state)

* You can not run NO CONTACT on a woman unless there has been an extensive emotional investment in you from her, or physical intimacy to a large degree - then it leads to a breakup of some sort. EVEN THEN, NC is really for a man to FORGIVE AND FORGET a woman. There is no guarantee a woman is going to chase you after you apply NC - EVER.

* A woman of HIGH INTEREST will never confuse you or reject you when you ask her out. If she truly can not make the time/date you set for the date, she will COUNTER OFFER on the spot. If she does not counter offer, NEXT.

* Learn to have more than just ONE woman in your life, DIVERSIFICATION IN YOUR PORTFOLIO is the successful scheme of making investment in multiple women so you do not end up with ONEITIS and on this forum.

* If a woman doesn't give you what you want, learn to NEXT her immediately and move on - if she has high interest, she will chase you then.

* You can not RUN SUCCESSFUL GAME if you don't have yourself as the PRIZE in your mind, and have thoroughly REVAMPED your state of manhood to RUN GAME. Learn to dress with style, gain confidence, take care of your appearance, learn charm/humor, and learn TO WALK AWAY FROM WOMEN AT ANYTIME.

* Get REALLY comfortable with being rejected from women - as with ALL FEARS, it becomes a part of life slowly but surely the more you are EXPOSED to the things you FEAR. After enough rejections (and not taking it personally), you will learn it is down to a NUMBERS game. The BEST GAME a REAL DJ can run will STILL BE REJECTED by an average looking woman. A REAL DJ will not take that personally because he realizes, it is NOT ABOUT HIM when he is rejected. There are a thousand circumstances in that woman's life that could have caused the rejection, even with PERFECT game.

Be Well.

Exodus

 

[Zeda94]

Dude...Everything everybody has said here has just made so much sense! I mean I've just only gotten into this a couple days ago (The pua world ) and I'll be putting it into practice straight after I start reading the DJ Bible. What Exodus said is right on the money. Thanks Gentleman!

 

[Thundernuts]

Oh you ain't seen nothing yet. Exodus could probably write his own bible, I could see now

"Mass Exodus, next that cvnt"

I'd buy it. Anyways I strongly suggest reading the bible because there is a lot more in there than what is being posted here and it will give you a lot of insight on what different problems you can run into, how to avoid them, and above it will reinforce overtime the most important mindset you need to hold.

Your life is for you and you alone. Every woman you date, every woman you fvck is just coming into your life because they want a piece of it. If you give them all you got without getting anything back then you will never get anywhere with women. Get more things going in your life and you will have more to offer to women. Thus your selection will start to grow all on its own without effort on your part. Just read the bible man it explains everything.

 

[GotED?]

I mean I've just only gotten into this a couple days ago (The pua world )

Hey Zeda94,

This is not a 'Pick-Up Artist' forum or place of PUA tactics. PUA seeks to take advantage of women and are labeled as 'Players'.

We are just simple ordinary men (most of us, at least, I am federal govt. manager - a few are PUA origin) who have went through life getting bashed by women and outpowered/outgunned mentally and emotionally.

A lot of us who are now into our years of wisdom (myself, at 41yrs old) have learned life the hard way - from AFC-ville to becoming a true DJ slowly over the years, yearns to help other men to avoid the mistakes we made ourselves in this journey called life.

I was once beaten down to the lowest point in my manhood several years ago by a very emotionally, mentally, and physically damaging woman (BPD-prone) that drove me to rise up to perfection as a man from AFC-ville after I found this site. Sometimes a man must be totally destroyed in order to be built on good foundations bottoms up. This forum is what transformed me from that sad state of chumphood, and has inspired me to spend my time here to answer questions and STILL LEARN FROM OTHER MEN (you never stop, don't let your ego think you know everything, ever - that's the day you become arrogant and prideful).

My only hope in writing the Great Gatsby episodes here is to help other men reach their greatest potential - as I hope this forum also help as many men to reach and become the best human being they can be. This can only be achieved when YOU ARE HAPPY and ENJOY YOUR LIFE.

One can not do so from a place of powerlessness, especially in the face of women. Women are what they are, neither good or bad for the most part - we must seek to understand them and learn to live in peace with them at the minimum - at the maximum, we can be happy with them in life.

Thanks for the good vibes, Thundernuts - you will come to take care of other men as I have, if not already starting to.


Be well.

Exodus

 

[Zeda94]

I think this is the best advice that I've gotten in a. long while and whether I'd like to admit it or not I've been an AFC for as long as I can remember but at least now I've got people to give me sound advice. I actually admire this site haha. Men actually out to help each other whether they know each other or not. I think that's some awesome sh*t man.