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What do her choices in men say about her?

Reno89

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I have met this girl and went out on a date with her. She showed up early, we had a great Convo, and she looked great. However she told me about dudes she has dealt with.

Dude 1: she was dating him for 2 months, and they stopped seeing each other. After the second date. He asked for a relationship, and she accepted. However, he kept trying to hit, and eventually she got tired of it.

Dude 2: she was dating a guy, and she said she does not want to be in a relationship with him. He said if he can't be with her, he wants nothing to do with her. Then one day he called her, and she was out with her cousin at a bar. He thought she was out with a dude, and said her that he was waiting on her, and he had a pistol with him. She called the police, and he got arrested.

Dude 3: she was actually feeling this dude. She was with him for 1 year, and lived with him for 2 months. She was paying all of the bills, and he wasn't looking for a job. He was also a weed head.

Off of these dudes, would it be fair to say that these dudes she chose speak for who she is? Aside from that, the date went great.
 

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Reno89 said:
I have met this girl and went out on a date with her. She showed up early, we had a great Convo, and she looked great. However she told me about dudes she has dealt with.

Dude 1: she was dating him for 2 months, and they stopped seeing each other. After the second date. He asked for a relationship, and she accepted. However, he kept trying to hit, and eventually she got tired of it.

Dude 2: she was dating a guy, and she said she does not want to be in a relationship with him. He said if he can't be with her, he wants nothing to do with her. Then one day he called her, and she was out with her cousin at a bar. He thought she was out with a dude, and said her that he was waiting on her, and he had a pistol with him. She called the police, and he got arrested.

Dude 3: she was actually feeling this dude. She was with him for 1 year, and lived with him for 2 months. She was paying all of the bills, and he wasn't looking for a job. He was also a weed head.

Off of these dudes, would it be fair to say that these dudes she chose speak for who she is? Aside from that, the date went great.
I'm sorry dude. I'm not trying to all "PUA" on you, but there's nothing great about some girl spending time on your first date talking about the last 3 guys she banged.

But yeah, it sounds like she has some issues. I've had my share of bad ex's, but I don't think reasonable people end up dating potheads who can't pay bills, and people who threaten to kill them for ending a relationship.
 

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That poor 2nd guy...probably ****ed over by so many women in his life that's he's damn near crazy now. Guarantee he's been fed a lot of lies by a lot of stupid ****s

3rd guy is the typical sack of crap "project" that she tried to fix.

1st guy...he kept trying to "hit" as in hit what? Have sex with her. If they're in a relationship it's ok to have sex.
 
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