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what do girls think when they're perceived as sluts?

dre007

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what do girls think when they're percieved as sluts and deny the fact that they really are. There's this girl I was gaming who I believed was playing me someway, and she had asked me personally if she was a slut and I said to be honest yes, and got furious with me and will not talk 2 me. 3 other ppl that nite had called her a slut or ***** at a party and I was about the 4th. To be honest tho, how does she not think she is a slut by her actions and thoughts with other guys? seriosuly... : /
 

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Snow Plowman

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lmao

You basically triggered off her ASD. You played right into it.

1. No girl is a slut because every chick will do what the slut has done, if she knew she would be held accountable for it and people won't find out.

2. If she is considered a slut her social value will be low because that means any guy could have her. This is why chicks play hard to get because of men and women constantly calling girls sluts. This is why when you go out with certain girls they'll hold out on sex, they won't give head, they won't be sexually comfortable.

Let this be a lesson to never say that again I don't care if she is down for golden showers because your only hurting your self. Don't jugde a girl by what she does sexually because every girl would do the same thing if not something similar.

For example in my experiences in the game, every girl I've talked to in my school, not one of them said they would give head. After being in the community and really playing the non-judgmental about sex role, and overall sexually comfortable. Each and every girl I've spoken too all love the idea of giving head and taking it in the face. But these same exact girls will lie right infront of my friends while I'm standing right there.

Bottomline don't do that sh!t again that was just dumb
 

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okay so maybe I didn't tell u all the details....first of all, I met her thru my friends facebook, we hit it off and she invited me over to her crib and the 1st time I met her we hookup downstairs when her mom was home. the 2nd time I meet her we hookup in her bedroom and she starts saying that she's fallin for me and durng mdweekend she goes to a party and starts hooking up with this guy and tells me about this 3 days later saying she didn't want to hurt me cuz she liked me so much, and I didn't know wat to say and just left it like that. she also said she wasn't ready for a relationship even tho she liked meso much and I was confused wen she said this and I felt like I was bein played. I start to ignore her and she notices and starts texting me and IMing me saying r u mad at me? and she even sends me an email over her sidekick with pictures of herself but it was a foward msg with some other address on it [email protected] which she was one of her really good friends and I'm like do u normally send those kind of pictures to ur friends? and she doesn't really expand on my question. yeh I became jealous for a little bit but then wen she asked me the question, do u think ima slut? wat else was I supposed to say. I'm not gonna be used by her, I do wat I want, I say what I want so I dunno why ure saying that was a bad move, I'm just wondering why sum girls who are a lil provocative with guys try to hide the fact that they're so innocent and sh1t.
 

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untill proven otherwise she is a slut. It doens't mater what she says.
 
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