"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jebach123

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I told a girl I was with a lot of girls in the past. I have been single for a loong time now but what would she think of me possibly when she heard that i had a lot of girls before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PantyWhisperer

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Everybody seems to want/expect their love interest to have a lower partner count than they do. Both will lie. Men will bump the number up, women will bump it down, but it's hard to tell what a woman's reaction to a high number will be. Some will think it makes them special somehow, others will just see the man as an untrustworthy slore.
 

RangerMIke

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Depends on the girl, and her intention of using you.

If she wants you for a boyfriend, she will be threatened...

Don't give up sexual information willy-nilly. They sure fvcking don't. Understand what it could mean.

Might as well show your hand in poker.
Agreed... don't share too much information with a woman.. let her wonder about you. If she starts asking questions about women you've been with in the past, joke about it. don't take the question too seriously.
 

devilkingx2

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depends on the girl, only you can tell if she's the type of girl who'll think "ewww what a player" or "gross he has no respect for women" (feminist warning) or "ooh what a badass" (slut/party girl/ONS warning) or "i can change him" (she's probably just naive or likes a challenge)
 

MrWood

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i am 50 and have not told my count to a woman in over 20 years

she realizes all that she needs after fvcking, experienced... very experienced
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NSX-R

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Never vocalize that you have been with many woman. Most of the time they will believe that you are lying and consider you an a****le.
Say it without saying it.
 
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