"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Veyron

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i went to one of the halloween parties one of my friends was hosting.at the party a girl from another school came and i think we hit it off.we sat by each other while we watched some scary movies and she leaned into me and i put my arm around her.after joking with her and playing around using Kino i got her number and aim.is she the flirty tyoe of girl or do u think she really likes me??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Adakkon

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She let you put your arm around her, you got good signals, and she gave you contact info.

Thats about as good of a hint as your ever going to get. Not to say it's a sure thing, I've had a woman who let me playfully grab her ass and stuff and wouldn't give me the time of day when I tried to get something going between us.

You'll find out for sure by whether or not she makes an excuse/flakes when you call her up to ask her out someplace, which you should be doing in a day or two.
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by Veyron
i went to one of the halloween parties one of my friends was hosting.at the party a girl from another school came and i think we hit it off.we sat by each other while we watched some scary movies and she leaned into me and i put my arm around her.after joking with her and playing around using Kino i got her number and aim.is she the flirty tyoe of girl or do u think she really likes me??
she liked you enough to sit by you all night and watch movies and she leaned into you and let you put your arm around you and she gave you her number and aim info. did you really need that spelled out?
relax! no worries!
 

oakraiderz2

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Sounds like my WWDJD wrist bands are need in mass production.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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