What do chicks think when you go to the bathroom A LOT during a date?

[WillieSacks]

I do this a lot on dates and was actually questioned once when I went to the restroom so much on a date. It's not so much that I have a bladder problem but I'm constantly checking myself out and checking my face to make sure that I don't have any snot hanging from my nose or that my hair is straight and that I look nice.

Like on a typical date, I'd go to the restroom before we eat/ after we eat and right before we leave the restaurant and once or twice at the next place we go, then once at her house.

The last date I went on, I must have gone to the bathroom 6 times during the course of the night.
I noticed that girls don't go to the bathroom at all during the dates. WTF.

LIke one time a girl asked me this and I didn't want to say I was checking myself out so I just said that I just have to wash my hands b4 and after we eat.


So what's up, am I just overanalyzing or do girls find this type of behavior wierd?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I find this type of behaviour Weird, as well.


You sound like a buddy of mine who is constantly looking in the mirror. Anywhere there is a reflection, he's looking in it...making sure everything is perfect.
In fact he looks so much that he's starting to convince himself that things are wrong. His skin is wrinkly, bags under eyes, his cheeks are flatter than they used to be.........

He doesn't look any different, but he's convinced that his face is changing.


Stop worrying about it.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[( . )( . )]

6 times? no wonder she thinks your a nut, can you say OCD?

 

[WillieSacks]

I'll try to only go to the restroom 3 times during the date b/c sometimes I REALLY have to go (movie theater piss) or before we sit to eat b/c I don't want to go through the whole meal/discussion and have something hanging from my nose or maybe I'll just check myself out in the car.

p.s. What's OCD?

And do you think going to the bathroom that many times can turn off the girls attraction?

 

[Blaaaaat]

Originally posted by WillieSacks


And do you think going to the bathroom that many times can turn off the girls attraction?

not if you're dating lesbians.

 

[echo1212]

What is today? Kiddy day? I swear this board gets more and more afc and younger as the days go by. Nothing personal willie, but you sound like a girl. 6 times? Now, I've dated girls that like to go to the bathroom a fair number of times, especially if their with another one so they can gossip, but your behavior screams of insecurity and a lack of self confidence. And if you're doing the bathroom thing, I'm sure you're doing other things that are just as insecure and afc as that.

You have to accept the fact that you are who you are, and if the person your with doesn't like that fact or because you have a crumb on the corner of your mouth..then screw em'. IF she really liked you in the first place she'd think it was cute and endearing and offer to "clean" you up. Quit being so analyzing of everything and OCD (yes he was right, obsessive compulsive disorder-a feeling of not feeling "right" unless everything is perfect in your world) and just relax and have fun ok?

 

[Maurizio 2.0]

I used to be kind of like this.

Although, I wouldn't go to the bathroom all the time (I'm certainly not one of those people who will loeave a movie to take a piss) I was concerned that I looked alright for this girl I was dating. Then I slept with her. In the morning my face was all crusty and my hair was totally f'ed looking, but she still made out with me.

After that I stopped caring how I looked so much -- like it's been said if she likes you, she likes you.

- maurizio

 

[Starman]

heh one chick thought I was doing coke..because that day I had drank like 3 big gulps..and had to go every like 15 mins

then she said "if you have coke..give me some" bahahhahahaha

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

When you're in the bathroom do you obsessively wash your hands too?

RELAX!!!!!!!!!!

There's no need to be constantly checking yourself. Before the meal/after the meal... and then only as often as you NEED to USE THE BATHROOM. NO MORE!!

 

[Oxide]

Whoa Whoa Whoa, slow down guys, the fella just want to make sure everything is in place, but really man, there isnt that much to worry about. One bad hair isnt gonna make the girl run for the hills. THere is a little thing called personality, plays some role in a relationship


I do look in the mirror quite often. Not because i am wondering if anything is wrong, but becuase i KNOW how good i look and i like it

I dont care what u call me, i love myself.

 

[Player_Supreme]

You need a shot of confidence. You sound insecure as fack. Constantly checking and primping maybe you should get a womans compact or better yet....just trust yourself to keep looking good.

No diss intended but you need to get over this shyt. Otherwise you come accross as vain or weak bladdered. Only women go to the bathroom that much bruh.

I find that constant primping effiminate or dandy-ish.

And I hate men who can't hold their bladders. I have a few buddies like that. They go before you leave. when you get there..while your there....before you leave from there...I tell them to get their plumbing checked out and stop acting like byatches. That shyt has become a pet peeves of mine now. Infact I better end this post now.

 

[BGMan]

Originally posted by Starman
heh one chick thought I was doing coke..because that day I had drank like 3 big gulps..and had to go every like 15 mins

then she said "if you have coke..give me some" bahahhahahaha

Drunk 3 big gulps and had to go every 15 mins? Maybe she was saying, "If you have Coke(tm), give me some". Subtle difference.

BGMan

 

[DJZ]

She prob thought you were going in there to spank it. lol










j/k

 

[MVPlaya]

DON'T GO TO THE BATHROOM SO MUCH

Listen up buddy,

You check yourself out and whether there's snot on your nose and if your hair's right and if your tampon's sticking out and if your big wart on your nose is showing BEFORE GOING OVER!

When you go over there, you want to show her your confident, when you go to the bathroom, either you have a bladder problem (which half of them suspect) and that makes you weird and harder to take serious (+ that gives room for question about your sexual potency) or you are DAMN NERVOUS ABOUT YOUR LOOKS (VEEEEEEEEEEERY BAD) or YOU ARE DAMN ARROGANT AND WANT TO CHECK YOUR OWN ASS OUT.

For goodness sake I'm hoping its Option #2, in this case, what you need to do is not worry so much and don't go to the bathroom more than once per activity (Ex. Dinner + Movie allows for once at dinner once at movie, if going over to her place maybe once more). If you go to frequently you are probably missing out on the date and she is made uncomfortable. Don't worry about the way you look. just get some table manners and keep your eyes on her.

 

[WillieSacks]

Yeh, I have a bad feeling this may have cost me a couple of times b/c the girl may be thinking that I have some kind of bladder problem, some STD or some $hit. From now on I'm going to hold my $hit in and maybe carry a mirror in my wallet. One time I brought a toothbrush on a date and after we ate, I went to the bathroom and brushed up. I gotta get over this $hit.

 

[Blaaaaat]

Originally posted by WillieSacks
and maybe carry a mirror in my wallet.

omg

One time I brought a toothbrush on a date and after we ate, I went to the bathroom and brushed up. I gotta get over this $hit.

omfg

 

[B9]

Well, Narcissius...

Me thinks you need to loosen up about your apperance. Some of that stuff (mirror in your pocket? Does it get more girlish????) is quite frankly shocking.

 

[bp1974]

Pleas tell me you're not going to start carrying a mirror around on dates. You are obsessing.