I'm new here and was wondering if folks could tell me what an "AFC" and an "HB" are, terms that are used a lot on this forum. I'm guessing the "AFC" is probably a dude perceived to have low self-esteem, generally unattractive to women, often called a nice guy, etc. I know "HB" has something to do with women, but I'm not sure what exactly.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What Do "AFC" and "HB" Mean?
- Thread starter Frank2500
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
afc is a guy who doesnt get it...always ends up as a friend..lacks the skills to make a woman sexually interested in him....stands for average frustrated chump
an hb means "hot babe".....number after it is a rating based on a scale from 1-10...
an hb means "hot babe".....number after it is a rating based on a scale from 1-10...
Maximus Rex
Banned
Frank, go read the Don Juan Bible RIGHT NOW!!!! i HAVE a feeling your going to be asking questions that have been answered.
selfmademob
Banned
read the Don Juan Torah as well
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.