I'm new here and was wondering if folks could tell me what an "AFC" and an "HB" are, terms that are used a lot on this forum. I'm guessing the "AFC" is probably a dude perceived to have low self-esteem, generally unattractive to women, often called a nice guy, etc. I know "HB" has something to do with women, but I'm not sure what exactly.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What Do "AFC" and "HB" Mean?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
afc is a guy who doesnt get it...always ends up as a friend..lacks the skills to make a woman sexually interested in him....stands for average frustrated chump
an hb means "hot babe".....number after it is a rating based on a scale from 1-10...
an hb means "hot babe".....number after it is a rating based on a scale from 1-10...
Maximus Rex
Banned
Frank, go read the Don Juan Bible RIGHT NOW!!!! i HAVE a feeling your going to be asking questions that have been answered.
selfmademob
Banned
read the Don Juan Torah as well
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.