"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What did you do for fun today?

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Here’s something to bring positivity in this forum. What did you do for fun today? With or without women, what did you do for fun today?

It can be anything simple. It can be dancing, air softing and cruising while listening to fun, laidback music....playing pick up basketball with the guys or whatever.

I find the best time to have fun is when your chores, job or errands are done, you treat yourself to something nice.

Dont get me wrong, I struggle with this aspect myself. But this is something we all struggle with from time to time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I directly asserted my dominance in front of foolish man and his wife. The man thought I would acknowledge him as superior, which I did not. In 90s slang, I “punked” him. His wife seemed confused. I’m having a beer in celebration now. Yay me.
 
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