Im 16 and its my spring break. My parents work everyday... so I cant go anywhere during the week in the daytime. I really want to go lift or a friends house or something.. because therse nothing to do at my house, except play games. Which is what ive been doing the past 3 days, and this is really a waste of a good break. What did you all do in your free time before you could drive?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What did you do before you got your license?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Don't you have a bus system or something near your house?
Francisco d'Anconia
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Drive illegally.
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- I had no life before a car
- I had no life before a car
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Look up the website for your mass transportation sytem and check out the routes and where they go. You really should learn soon because it will definetely come in handy some day. I've had to commute on mass transit a lot for multiple jobs I have had.Thai Foon said:yeah but i dunno how to use it =\ damn i really should have learned
Centaurion
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I'm over 20 and still don't have a license. The mass-transportation system is top notch around here so I never had the need to get a license, and besides it costs 2000+ USD to get a license here.
When chicks ask me why I don't have a license, I usually give them some mumbo-jumbo about being concerned for global warming/ the enviroment and that's why I've taken a concious choice of not contributing to the industry that is fvcking up our lovely planet.
Believe it or not, they eat that sh!t up raw!
When chicks ask me why I don't have a license, I usually give them some mumbo-jumbo about being concerned for global warming/ the enviroment and that's why I've taken a concious choice of not contributing to the industry that is fvcking up our lovely planet.
Believe it or not, they eat that sh!t up raw!
Nows your chance.Thai Foon said:yeah but i dunno how to use it =\ damn i really should have learned