"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Defines a Keyboard Jockey?

Roulette

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What exactly defines a "keyboard jockey" and how can you tell if a poster is one or not.

Kudos,
Matt
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jay Jay

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Anyone who posts at this site but did not respond to this question.
 

Obsidian

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someone who gives good advice online but isn't a particularly good seducer in person

kinda like me ;)
 

Bonez

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Takes one to know one... Obsidian

Most people will accuse people of bein a kj if they can't see their advice working. Others if the person doesn't post any field reports(pfft field what a word). Others will accuse a person of being a kj if they have over XXX posts, just because the person spends so much time online that he can't possibly get out(fransisco for example).

To me, I don't care, and neither should you. Let them be KJ, you are't going to change them. If you really are bothered than all you have to do is follow your gut, then click the ignore button in their profile.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bond21

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Lets just say..M Power...no wait thats too obvious...Max P.
 

Max Power

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bond21 said:
Lets just say..M Power...no wait thats too obvious...Max P.
Hey, dude.

I'm not a player, but I'm not a keyboard junkie either. I made a similar post about a waitress like you did way back and someone gave me the same advice. Instead of attacking that person I followed it.
 

Man Man

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Generally someone who lifts all their knowledge from things they've read; they usually make it quite clear that they have never mustered up the balls to apply said techniques themselves by the way they post. You'll know them when you see them.
 
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