"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What constitutes an attraction touch/kino from a girl?

BlahUgh

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Today I was standing in line waiting to get coffee when @ one point the girl behind me grabs my upper arm/side shoulder as she moves to the next cashier and asks me "whether or not I was being served". This particular spot had two right beside each other so sometimes you can move to the other side of the person in front of you if they are being served. Although its sometimes hard to know if they've already ordered since it goes quickly. So anyway the question she asked me seemed legit and I wouldn't usually think twice about it, but the fact that she grabbed onto, and kind of applied pressure to my arm as she walked by struck me as odd. It actually kind of suprised me when it happened. So my question is whether or not this can be considered her being attracted to me, or are some girls okay with touching strangers (guys) like this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Palomo

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i think she was actually kinoing you!!! kino from a girl is similar to kino from a boy, it could be a friendly kino, but if she applied pressure and/or rubbed you, it´s definately kino, it doesn´t mean you have a new girlfriend but she wanted to build some rapport.
If she stared firmly into your eyes exactly at the same time she applied pressure, she wanted rapport in a deeper level, because in that case she wanted to see your pupil reaction.
 

Tomatoes

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You will never know now because you didnt follow up on it. Instead you are asking on the forum. Best way would be to answer here question. Maintain eye contact and then introduce.

You would then be able to tell...

IF YOU DONT SHOOT YOU WONT SCORE.
 

Warlord

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I would honestly ignore kino from women and pay attention to body closeness with special focus on the lower body area.
 
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