Today I was standing in line waiting to get coffee when @ one point the girl behind me grabs my upper arm/side shoulder as she moves to the next cashier and asks me "whether or not I was being served". This particular spot had two right beside each other so sometimes you can move to the other side of the person in front of you if they are being served. Although its sometimes hard to know if they've already ordered since it goes quickly. So anyway the question she asked me seemed legit and I wouldn't usually think twice about it, but the fact that she grabbed onto, and kind of applied pressure to my arm as she walked by struck me as odd. It actually kind of suprised me when it happened. So my question is whether or not this can be considered her being attracted to me, or are some girls okay with touching strangers (guys) like this.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What constitutes an attraction touch/kino from a girl?
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