"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What commonality and passions do we share with Women?

The Mad Ghost

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This is a big interest for me and a LTR. I've always usually had something in common with the girl or somthing along the same lines for passions, but what if you do happen to get into a LTR, without any commonalities. I believe the best relationships have worked due to sharing of ideal passions.

Most good couples share similiar passions, which give them the opportunity to a be grateful, travel, explore and share together.

What are some women's passions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iceberg

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What are some women's passions?
Do women have gender-specific passions? Passions are passions, right? Art. Music. Travel. Cooking. Fashion.
 

kingsam

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Iceberg said:
Do women have gender-specific passions? Passions are passions, right? Art. Music. Travel. Cooking. Fashion.
dildos are one, are not many men into those!
 

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I dont think its very necesery. Its not something i look for specifically.

I couldnt come up with any specific passions or interests iv shared with any of my girlfriends, but my interest in them was always high judging by my desire for sex with them and seeing them.

I think 'compatibility' and 'sharing passions' are made up by women. I look for much different things for successful relationships.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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