What comes after a hook up...?

[the_azn_fu]

a. Want to be in a relationship
b. Want to keep hooking up
c. Leave them nicely

How would you handle situations a, b, and c like a DJ? More attention? Keep away? Less attention? Any ideas would be great and would help many people as I have not been able to find a post on this anywhere on the internet

 

[MooseGod]

A. Take her to breakfast
B. Get outta there before she wakes up, call her next weekend after 9:00
C. This is the one I have trouble with...I guess just gradually taper off contact until she forgets all about you...but then again I have many chicks who hate me due to this...

 

[Effington]

It depends on what YOU want. If you don't want anything more, then just say how nice of a time you had, but you're really busy so need to go do something. If she continually tries to contact you, use the flawless line, "I'm not ready for a relationship right now." That one always amuses me.

If you want to see the girl again, hopefully you know what to do. I like to start things as casual the first couple of weeks, and see how it goes from there, although I think my mindset is a little different from most of the people on this board. My goal isn't to sleep with as many random people as possible, it's simply to better understand interpersonal relationships.

 

[the_azn_fu]

Thanks for the replies. Personally, i wanna be in a relationship. And these message boards are more aimed towards meeting and seducing women to hookup with. But after that hookup happens, would you still play it like a don and push/pull and all that? cuz by now she knows you like her, so you cant keep her confused anymore...can you? thanks

 

[Effington]

Thanks for the replies. Personally, i wanna be in a relationship. And these message boards are more aimed towards meeting and seducing women to hookup with. But after that hookup happens, would you still play it like a don and push/pull and all that? cuz by now she knows you like her, so you cant keep her confused anymore...can you? thanks

Yes, I would definitely still play the ****y/funny and push/pull cards, they are two key ways of how attraction and interest is built. I always hear people coming here and saying how their girl lost interest after a couple weeks, and a lot of times it's because they stopped with it. It's no coincidence that when you stop doing what worked in the first place, you stop getting the same results you got in the first place.

Good luck man, and let us know how it goes!