"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What cologne do you use?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lord Shinra said:
I tend to use either Dolce and Gabbana during the evening, especially when its cold out.
Absolutely right. D&G is best at night when it's cool. If you wear it and sweat the tobacco tinge is filtered out and loses it's essence.

Aside from D&G, I like Burberry Weekend for general use and Fahrenheit by Dior is remarkable if it's a balmy evening.

Raw Vanilla really gets the juices flowing but a little goes a long way.
 
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Brut, High Karate, and Right Guard!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Brut, High Karate, and Right Guard!!!
LECTRIC SHAVE and AQUA VELVA!!!! :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I currently have/use Hugo Boss and Abercrombie & Fitch. The Abercrombie is about gone, so i'm gonna switch to something else.
 

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how a cologne smells on you depends solely on you. different cologne's smell different on people because of our skin types. cologne with alcohol in it doesnt smell good on men. my favs: Gio, original Curve, Polo black, Givenchy Irresistable, fierce, kenneth cole reaction.
 
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212 by carolina herrera (personal favorite)
lacoste (gray bottle only)
armani
aramis blue
paris hilton ( forgot name of the line but its the one that got discontinued )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you have to have a combination of scents, I prefer wood, fresh, musk, vanilla, cinnamon.
the very best is called L.T. PIVER, I bet most people can't get it, only sold in specialty stores and in Paris, its a fresh scent and its the very best.
for a vanilla scent I like GIVECHY, its called pie fresh and its a sure fvck.

in the winter cinnamon scents work out great the best is "SEQUOIA, series2: RED", a little bit goes a long way, its a cinnamon.

for a fresh wood scent, the best is JAGUAR, its also a sure FVck.

amani code is way overated and is really gay, it smells like talcum powder.

other lame colonges are armani aqua, way too fruity smellling, obsession is way too strong and kind of homo. A&F is lame, they don't even make it, so if it was really quality why would they pay A&F to put their name on it. burberry, same deal as above, they don't make it, just has their name on it and its way too loud and annoying.
cool water is ok, but kind of domestically old.

don't store your colonges in the bathroom, store them in a cool place, several changes in temperature breaks them down, don't put them close to a heater.

always get the smallest bottle possible, so they can stay fresh, always buy the sprays, never get the splash ons, once you spray the bottle its only good for one year and then it starts changing scent.

best bet is to wear a different smell everyday, lets women know you are spontaneous depending on your mood, women will start looking for different smells everyday like they look at what tie you are wearing everyday. always put colonge on the back of your neck and on your wrist, never put colonges on your face.
 

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Nautica Voyage
Sean John Unforgivable
Hugo Boss Hugo
Armani Mania

and of course, "Sex Panther" by Odeon. Sixty percent of the time, it works, every time.
 

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DonRaul said:
What cologne do you guys use?

My personal favorites are:

* Jean Paul Gautier
* Burberry London
Abercrombe and Fitch. a girl I used to date picked it out for me. I have no idea if it works or not, as I haven't gotten any compliments except from her.
 

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Polo Double Black is all good, but the Don's is Kenneth Cole- RSVP
 
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KarmaSutra said:
I'm sure English Leather is in there somewhere.
Of Course!!! :up:

If you were being sarcastic, I'm sure you would have used Mr. Rollyeyes :rolleyes:


Francisco d'Anconia said:
LECTRIC SHAVE and AQUA VELVA!!!! :rockon:
Yes! YES!! YES!!!!! I thought I was the only one left!
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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