"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what causes a girl to lose IL in 1 day, bad mood, period, or unexplainable?

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pete101

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are there sometimes incidents which you have no control over or explanation as to why a girl suddenly loses interest for no reason?

for instance, they say on here take her on cheap dates at the beginning to vet her out to see if she genuinely likes you i.e. coffee as a first date or ice cream and walk in the park or a free concert.

the girl i picked up last week had high IL, very smiley. i text her a couple days later to have coffee and she seemed still interested, as in how her texts sounded positive. the day after when we were suppose to meet, she didn't flake but she sounded in a p1ssy mood. we met for coffee and she just wasn't interested.. i made fun of her for being in a bad mood to get her out of the funk. but she just seemed distracted and bored. i thought maybe originally she might have been a golddigger but she didnt know where i lived or do as work so i thought she just liked me.

all i know is her ex-bf contacted her that day and that had an effect on her mood i.e. her bad mood took precedent over her interest in me. are some things just unexplainable?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would try to focus more on several day trends in her interest. One day could be from anything. However, if this is your first date I think it would be a bad sign. Most girls know that they have to act interested on their first date, not doing so could mean she doesn't want a second one. I would pull back a bit and see if she tries to make things right.
 
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