You have to remember that there aren't a ****-ton of active, frequent posters here, and they probably don't live in Europe, Africa, or wherever the hell, and aren't Indian or "brown". That's why you only get a few "normal", relevant responses to all these racial-geolitical questions. It's too specific and uncommon territory for most people. Only a few people can relate or answer. But those vague, attraction-based threads get a lot of regular responses, because everyone can relate and chime in. They ask about women and dating in general - not brown guys with hot blonde women in Western Europe. Narrowing it down too much.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What can you tell me about Western European women?
- Thread starter JackRobin
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Could be the myth of the Arian race or the perfect race :crackup:TillTheEndOfTime said: