"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What can you do if you're a 3 or 4?

Obsidian

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post a f*cking picture, you damn wuss. You expect to woo women yet your afraid of our disapproval over an internet forum? Grow up and get some ballz, chump. You are nothing.

A man is active; you are obviously not.

Pook help save your sorry ass.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nicenomore

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MicCheck1-2 said:
I've been reading the DJ Bible and while it's been awfully helpful, I'm not sure it's working too well for me. I notice how most of the DJs were already getting good vibes from females but I never have in my life. No female has ever given me a 2nd look. I've done the cold approaching to no avail. Most say they already have a boyfriend or stop talking to me and walk away. I already know I'm not not even in the least bit attractive but what can I do about it? Should I just forget about girls and try to find better my life elsewhere? I think there might be a such thing as too ugly.
see dude, many guys have started on this forum as certified nerds. we were , and most still are stuck in the process of "de-nerdification" . Go , talk to girls. Don't hit on them . Boyfriends are resistances offered. And those who stop talking and walk away , means you're seriously saying things which possibly you should not. Next time , post a detail of your convos, we'll help you. No problems. You understand that girls are an intergral part of your life. You need to get that area handled. Fom what I understand , its not about your looks, the problem lies somewhere else, possibly your sub communication. List out 10 good qualities/talents on a peice of paper. Feel good about yourself. You are not a 3/4.. You're way better than that.
 

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We're not feeding you with lies...

Looks isn't the most important thing in the game but if you're not taking care of yourself(you have crooky teeth,bad hair,smelly,dress like a beggar etc) dont expect someone to give you sh!t...

Women don't go easy on themselves so why would they on picking you...

Try to compensate your ugly features by dressing nicely and by observing good hygiene...

If your face has some irregularities,and if that's what's holding you back,then get a plastic surgery...

And finally,stop whining and stop being a wussy.. Focus on improving yourself so that you can see results...

You get what you deserve in life dude...Remember that!
 
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