"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what can you do after first date? need help

sparky1981

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Man I can't believe i'm on here asking about this, but I need help.

Ok so its been a dry spell and have finally picked up a girl i'm into and whos in to me. She quite cool so far and not a bad looker. Maybe most fun I've had with a chick so i'm keen to be the man and hold on to her. Well we went out the other night first to a bar to meet and then hit some nightclubs for some dancing but not much drinking so we both knew what we were doing and how it all was. She ditched her freinds for me and then we left the clubs and did the streets and a bit of hanging out on the grass quite getting quite close to each other..

Well nows she up for round two and its my turn to come up with the goods on where to go and what to do. I don't want to do the nightclub thing this time so I can see her as she is normally and I don't want to do a movie yet.
But i'm blank for ideas on something that should make for a really good night

Help I need ideas
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dr Box

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Something fun and active, No movies, no coffee, no dinner!
Try mini golf, or indoor rock climbing there is heaps to do just thing of something different and fun.
Good Luck
 

lets_do_this

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what works for me are silly walks to nowhere, holding hands and i dont know, just doing pushy stuff that makes physical contact.

this way you can measure up if you can make a further move.

the earlier, the better imo.. if not it will build up akwardness.

dunno if this is the DJ way, but this seems to lead me to the proper direction.

ride a bike, or take a swim. go to an amusement center. ask her if she wants a massage.. :)
 
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