Shiraz
Don Juan
what can i say to a girl i like but i dont no her well i no her name and that but i dont no what to chat to her about??
Help please
Help please
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what can i talk about to a girls ive never meet?
- Thread starter Shiraz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Alen-Delon
Senior Don Juan
your probably an uneducated AFC who doesnt know Sh*T.... no offense....
Theres lots of things you can talk to her about
for example: how great her hair looks today how did she get it to look like that.... or comment on what shes wearing in school is thats where you know her from.... anything how her studys. is she having problems with her foreign language class or not.... these kind of lil phrases can lead to an nice convo.... its up to you to get it going after you throw some of the lines.... example you see her walking down the hallway and you go up to her and say hey i ve noticed something very interesting about you.... she already be intrigued ... She say: Whats that... with smile on her face..... then go ahead and comment her on something.... and then you can get the convo going easy.... just need the right time you know what i mean lunch or something or before class or if you dont see her at school then try to catch her when shes isolated from everyone.... or if you dont even know her stop her on the street...
Use your mind and imgaination its not that hard....
Theres lots of things you can talk to her about
for example: how great her hair looks today how did she get it to look like that.... or comment on what shes wearing in school is thats where you know her from.... anything how her studys. is she having problems with her foreign language class or not.... these kind of lil phrases can lead to an nice convo.... its up to you to get it going after you throw some of the lines.... example you see her walking down the hallway and you go up to her and say hey i ve noticed something very interesting about you.... she already be intrigued ... She say: Whats that... with smile on her face..... then go ahead and comment her on something.... and then you can get the convo going easy.... just need the right time you know what i mean lunch or something or before class or if you dont see her at school then try to catch her when shes isolated from everyone.... or if you dont even know her stop her on the street...
Use your mind and imgaination its not that hard....
Don't be boring, talking about "studies" and "foreign languages" isn't going to woo her. The hair thing could work, comment on some jewelry maybe...comment on something she's doing (She's reading a book in a store - "Why would you even pick up a book...it's summer!")
Once you've broken the ice it's just keeping it going from there...look for a post on 30% and 70% or something,, it's pretty new in teh HS forum - good stuff.
Once you've broken the ice it's just keeping it going from there...look for a post on 30% and 70% or something,, it's pretty new in teh HS forum - good stuff.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Dude. You can talk about ANYTHING!!, once you get a women going on a subject she will talk and talk and talk and talk!. One of my favourites is holidays, talk about where your going this year (doesn't have to be true), where she's been, where was her favourite and why etc.........just make sure you ask open ended questions and leave before the conversation tails off. (makes her yearn for you)
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
First, you should learn to spell and whatnot so you don't look like an uneducated idiot. With that being said, just think of a few questions to ask her, and then when she answers one, just ask something more in depth about it. Here's an example. A- What's your favorite movie? B- Blah Blah Blah. A- What do you like about it? B- Blah Blah Blah Blah. A- Any other comedies/horror/whatever movies you like? B- Oh yeah, I like Blah Blah Blah Blah. A- Really?! I like Blah Blah Blah too! You get the idea.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alen-Delon, the aim is to get her talking about herself (girls like that, give them an opportunity to blabber off). Lead the conversatin, but ask about stuff you are geniunely interested in but not anythign that can lead to a problematic one like politics.
alen, you just had to spurt out that little "afc who doesn't know ****" didn't you? for having said that, you sure don't seem to know a whole lot. the secret isn't complementing her on open and obvious things like her hair. if you must complement her on something, mention something that nobody else would notice. the best though is to lead on with some light-hearted teasing.
yea u can talk about whatever u want. treat her like u would anyone else. i treat every girl the same and they love it! if shes a hottie then ur takin her off her pedestal and she'll stop bein b*tchy. they'll think i have a great personality. i figure that just has to do with not bein a puss in front of them and talkin about whatever i feel like. i guarentee you if you just be yourself she'll love it. dont kiss @$$ PLEASE.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
(May seem off topic but it isn't)
Keep in mind, the people who post here are from around the world, hence WORLD wide web. So, its understandaable when people have poor grammar/spelling. If you can understand it, cool. IF it's like this:
0mG!1jus7 pz0wN3d j00 1n t3H f4yc3!!11onee!!eone1!!11
...then it's not cool.
I'd say treating all girls, or better yet, all people, the same is the way to go.
Keep in mind, the people who post here are from around the world, hence WORLD wide web. So, its understandaable when people have poor grammar/spelling. If you can understand it, cool. IF it's like this:
0mG!1jus7 pz0wN3d j00 1n t3H f4yc3!!11onee!!eone1!!11
...then it's not cool.
I'd say treating all girls, or better yet, all people, the same is the way to go.
Keep your goal in mind:
You goal is to sex her.
In order to sex her, you need to know her buttons.
If you want to find her buttons, you should ask her questions about her interests.
Then ask follow up questions about it. Try to find out what she wants from life. What her insecurities are. What she sees herself as... etc...
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
"Your goal is to sex her."
I just love they way you put that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.