What can I say to this girl to not seem like a stalker

[PuertoRican_Lover]

That sounds good for first contact. And yes you should build a little rapport = talk about the 'club' meetings etc. - however, your goal is to see her in person (in the flesh) this is where you will have the most impact. Go slow and look for signs of interest on her part i.e. does she ask you questions to get to know more about you or are you the only one asking the questions and she only gives short answers?

Do not talk to her for more than 3 IM chats/e-mails - on the 3nd/3rd e-mail ask for digits for the sole purpose of meeting on a date - do not chit chat on the phone - leave that for your date!

I smell marriage coming in the next few years between you two and maybe a dozen bambinos!!

This should not be a stressful burden - it is a exciting pursuit of your prey - sharpen your claws and when you have her in your grasp do not let her go - don't kill her though for this will defeat the purpose of your mission!!!

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

This will work for sure:

I saw you out walking your dog Molly again today. Every day for the last two years, four months, and seventeen days you take the same early morning walk. I think you've only missed four or five times, including that one week you went to Cancun for a week with some friends. I just sat there on the bench while you walked by without even noticing me, just like always. The third stair from the top at your house is squeaky. You should get that looked at. The drawer where you keep your panties smells like lavendar and vanilla. I especially like the black thong. It's silky and it feels nice on my skin. The pillows on your bed are soft. Please forgive me for getting semen on your carpet. Sincerely, cannibustacap.

 

[cannibustacap]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
This will work for sure:

Ok that is funny, but that is going too far. There are always fine lines. Girls could be intrigued that you notice them.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

what can you sya not to seem like a stalker? thats easy, just say nothing and stand 1 foot behind her breathing heavily down her neck.

 

[cannibustacap]

Whatever man. No matter how this works out, it is just another of life's lessons and experiences.

Its better than doing nothing and sitting on my ass. After all, I could just sit here, and do jack-shi~t about this girl. Possibly move on to the next.. but UCLA chicks suck, so I have nothing to really look forward to.

I have to give them a chance to be with such a great guy like me

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
This will work for sure:

i think thats perfect.

 

[frivolousz21]

CANNIBUSTA!!!

I dont like this...you have this long ass post over 1 chick

come on man..what have I been telling you...I know there is a lot more to you than just women..and I like that..but I think u need 1 week up in scramento with Playa Supreme.

you shouldnt over anylize..just write what first comes to mind..why? because 99999999.9999 percent of the time thats what u really want to say..now be ur "frivolous" self..and just start PIMPING THESE WOMEN!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Caninthebusstop, you owe me an update whether positive or negative!

 

[cannibustacap]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Caninthebusstop, you owe me an update whether positive or negative!

She hasn't responded. I guess because its finals week or she could be on vacation.

By the way, the reason for this thread wasn't for this particular girl, but this situation in general.

Contacting women online that you have seen a few times in real life. I guess this is a good way to describe it.

Imagine meeting a girl in a book store, coffee shop, or where ever and you never see her again till you go online a week later and boom, she is there on a dating sight. What do you say to not seem like a stalker? Am I right?

Anyway, this girl may be some kind of jewish princess or whatever who only go for like Rabbi's or Israeli's or whatever. Probably super high maintenance, we'll see. I'll update you guys with everything if you want.

Either way, no response. I'll update when/if I hear something.

Thanks again guys.