"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What can i do?

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diceman

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Hey Everyone!

I'm wondering if you can help me with forfilling my full potential in the next week.
You see, I've got the next week all to myself.

My parents are going on holiday so (apart from my older brother) I've got the house to myself.
I want to be working in a temp job (as i'm goin' to uni in Sept) but as i can't drive & my parents usually give me lifts there & back, this isn't possible.
Plus I've got to pick my niece up from school everyday (my mum usually does it) so i have to be at the school every afternoon.
I've got no money as i spent it all on a holiday I've just returned from.
All my friends are working, & i don't have any money to go out or do anything with them even if they wern't.

So, i've got a week just to myself.

I want to make the most of it & get as much done as i can. I don't want to end up watching rubbish TV & downloading internet porn. I want to do something constructive!

Does anyone have any suggestions for what i can fill my time with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Morphiex

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Originally posted by diceman
[B I don't want to end up watching rubbish TV & downloading internet porn. I want to do something constructive!

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well it seems that u dont have much choise then those two since u got no money left....

Nowadays u need money to do anything
even go to the effing bathroom....
so dont think u have much choise there sorry =/
 
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diplomatic_lies

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Theres way too much stuff you can do without money:

-Hang out with your friends, play cards, muck around, etc
-Go swimming (if you're poor, go to the beach)
-Picking up women is free, from my memory
-Having sex is also free
 
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diceman

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Well, I live nowhere near the beach. I live in a small village miles from any big towns (including swimming baths).

So, at the moment it looks like i'll just be reading alot & learning new songs to play on my guitar.

Unless you guys have any other ideas.
 
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excersize
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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