"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diceman

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Hey Everyone!

I'm wondering if you can help me with forfilling my full potential in the next week.
You see, I've got the next week all to myself.

My parents are going on holiday so (apart from my older brother) I've got the house to myself.
I want to be working in a temp job (as i'm goin' to uni in Sept) but as i can't drive & my parents usually give me lifts there & back, this isn't possible.
Plus I've got to pick my niece up from school everyday (my mum usually does it) so i have to be at the school every afternoon.
I've got no money as i spent it all on a holiday I've just returned from.
All my friends are working, & i don't have any money to go out or do anything with them even if they wern't.

So, i've got a week just to myself.

I want to make the most of it & get as much done as i can. I don't want to end up watching rubbish TV & downloading internet porn. I want to do something constructive!

Does anyone have any suggestions for what i can fill my time with?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Morphiex

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Originally posted by diceman
[B I don't want to end up watching rubbish TV & downloading internet porn. I want to do something constructive!

[/B]
well it seems that u dont have much choise then those two since u got no money left....

Nowadays u need money to do anything
even go to the effing bathroom....
so dont think u have much choise there sorry =/
 

diplomatic_lies

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Theres way too much stuff you can do without money:

-Hang out with your friends, play cards, muck around, etc
-Go swimming (if you're poor, go to the beach)
-Picking up women is free, from my memory
-Having sex is also free
 

diceman

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Well, I live nowhere near the beach. I live in a small village miles from any big towns (including swimming baths).

So, at the moment it looks like i'll just be reading alot & learning new songs to play on my guitar.

Unless you guys have any other ideas.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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excersize
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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