Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What can I do to take control of the date?
- Thread starter kingman
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Good luck bro. HAve Fun. Be REAL. And always go for the KISS(there is no perfect "time" just go for it) This is the structure I use everytime and the girls eat it up.
You: So your ready for saturday
Her: What are we doing?
You: Just make sure to wear a nice top and shoes(tell her heels, casual, etc)
Her: Where are we going?
You: Dont worry I got everything taken care of.
Her: Common tell me, I really want to know
you: okay, we are going to the circus and riding elephants(say something completely outrageous)
Her: Now she is really interested.
You: Change the subject.
The sub-context here is that you are completely leading her and she has to put trust in you and now she will go on a date with you just to find out what you have planned.
Just dont pull the: what do you want to do? because we can do whatever you want to do. This is ****ing DEATH.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
if she says she has always been attracted to *******s, then you know you gotta start acting like a prick if you wanna hit that
Metaphysical said:always think two steps ahead of her bro, that's all. ask the questions you want her to talk about, like her ex-boyfriends. that way you will learn what kind of guys she is attracted to and will be able to demonstrate you're that kinda guy
if she says she has always been attracted to *******s, then you know you gotta start acting like a prick if you wanna hit that
Sorry bro. But this is not good. NEVER talk about past relationships on the first few dates. Women will always hold feelings for ex-boyfriends even if they were *******s. Also, Your the new and improved man in her life, so show her that you are better than her ex.
Also, Confident men never change their purpose to connect with a girl. Be YOUR OWN man.
DO NOt "think two steps ahead" if you are thinking two steps ahead means you are hearing her, but NOT LISTENING to her. You will miss a lot of info she is giving by trying to think ahead. ALWAYS BE IN THE MOMENT!!!!
Women are not attracted to *******s, they are attracted to their unreactive nature.
Again if you havent actually dated a few women please DO NOT give advice until you get more experience. I know you mean well, but every man that will see your post can tell that you got that off a pick up book. **** does not work bro.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.