Life's pretty boring for me right now, and until our next band practice next week, I have nothing to do, and no where to go to approach women. I tried looking for another music camp to attend, but according to my parents there are no more music camps going on, so scratch that. I can't go to the mall without my parents, and there are no nearby bus stops, so scratch that. I could always get a job at the market, but there's a good chance no girls MY AGE hang out there, and yeah, I'm pretty much stuck at home on the computer for a little more than a week. It's hard to accept that there's I could do to make progress with my game at the time, but that's the way it looks. So tell me guys, is there anything that I can do to make progress with my game, until school starts?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What can I do to make life less boring?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Ban yourself from this site, read, write, run, work out, play video games, watch movies, watch tv, find out why everyone thinks the samething about you on this site and yet you insult them anyway, listen to music, make a song, play basketball...pretty much do anything.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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[S]alvatore
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Do you need new clothes, or want some CD's or DVD's? Change into some clothes that are a bit more dressy than usual (ie. Good pair of jeans, dressy shirt and some nice shoes) and go to a major shopping centre/mall. There should be a sh!tload of girls there, and you're bound to get some attention.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Read the f*cking post loser.Bvbidd said:
Read the post, or don't talk. Besides f*ckface, if I knew where a f*cking bus stop was I would take it, you f*cking piece of sh*t who accuses other people of being trolls, just because they're the real trolls. Enjoy your stay on the ignore list, f*ckface.
God damn, read the post before you reply, you call ME a troll, and you can't read the damn post? What a hypocrite. Besides, why is it SO FUCKING HARD FOR TO ACCEPT THAT THERE ARE NO NEARBY BUS STOPS? Not all of us live in the city, y'know.
mike get off the website. your not helping anyone and your certainly not helping yourself. i havent looked at this website in over 2 months until now and im doing very well without it. i decided that i needed to start making my own decisions and not posting my problems on here, which is something you seem to like to do:yes: .
stop complaining and figure out a problem or 2 for yourself. and please do grow up a little and dont get so defensive when people put you down. i am ashamed to say that i am the same age as you
stop complaining and figure out a problem or 2 for yourself. and please do grow up a little and dont get so defensive when people put you down. i am ashamed to say that i am the same age as you
Dude, I'm not complaining, I'm asking for a solution. And I have tried finding a solution, but it hasn't seemed to work very well. I could go down to the High School pool, but all the chicks down their are probably middle schoolers.JayCamx23 said:mike get off the website. your not helping anyone and your certainly not helping yourself. i havent looked at this website in over 2 months until now and im doing very well without it. i decided that i needed to start making my own decisions and not posting my problems on here, which is something you seem to like to do:yes: .
stop complaining and figure out a problem or 2 for yourself. and please do grow up a little and dont get so defensive when people put you down. i am ashamed to say that i am the same age as you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
well since your my age you got some of the issues i got myself. i dont know if you got your license but i dont, i got 5+months to go. so basically i gotta get rides with my friends when i wanna go find some chicks. my closest friend is 18. like 90% of my friends are 17. so im pretty much the only one without my license, except for one of my closer friends who gets his in 2 months. i am VERY dependable on other people for rides which usually means i dont have much say in where i wanna go. one thing i wanna do is start to try sarging on my own. i wanna become more independent. i wanna go to clubs by myself, the mall alone, stuff like that. there is too many distractions when im trying to go meet some chicks when my friends are there. one of my friends gf made a very good point a few eeks ago when she was in a *****y mood. she said "all you guys do is follow each other around". which is too true. i really cant wait to get my license but i do what i can now
Mr_rogers
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Guh... didn't I spend 2 hours with you on this already? Over MSN not 3 days ago?MikeViper said:
*sigh* I'll recap then.
At the moment, you're not READY to start sarging. There's more things that you have to do to YOURSELF first. Inner Game stuff.
For example:
- Getting into better shape
- Buying new clothes
- Finding new interests
Remember all these things? Mike, man, until you realize that to have success with women, you have to be happy with yourself, you're never going to get anywhere.
I told you about 40 times that you need to forget about women for a bit and focus on yourself, and here you are, saying that you'd like to get a job, but there aren't any WOMEN your age there.
Listen to me carefully... **** WOMEN (and not in the good way)! For the time being, you've got a lot of personal **** to sort out before you even think about going near the opposite sex.
Please, listen to me when I tell you something, and take it to heart, otherwise we're both just wasting our time.
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