Or is it possible that some people may not have as strong a desire. I mean when you're young,and horny,and you just wanna do it all the time. Like the want is there,but perhaps the drive isn't. Know what I mean? That feeling of just wanting to fvck everything. I am also concerned if this is a problem for me,it could be caused by some sort of shyness or lack of confidence. I reas tucker max's board,says first thing you need is confidence. I don't know of any special skills or talents I have. I mean,something that really makes you stand out. I have not been developing any over time.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What can cause a low sex drive??
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why do you ask? Are you in a relationship where the woman is complaining?
If not, why worry about it? As i said in another thread, I don't like to watch baseball or hunt game, and I don't worry about that! It's not like you have high blood pressure, or something.
Always wanting to f*** women is both a blessing and a curse. I don't speak from theory here!
If not, why worry about it? As i said in another thread, I don't like to watch baseball or hunt game, and I don't worry about that! It's not like you have high blood pressure, or something.
Always wanting to f*** women is both a blessing and a curse. I don't speak from theory here!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can't just say it doesn't matter, he obviously wants to solve it or he wouldn't have posted the question. Plus if he has a low sex drive that's just going to hurt his confidence further, making things even more difficult.azanon said:
But as i said, exercise will kill the depression and help your sex drive. Try a zinc supplement too.
My first question was "Why do you ask?", so obviously I am curious why he "wants to solve it". But, per my comments that followed that, I'm not sure it makes sense to "solve" not liking something, since there's nothing wrong with preferences.dav27 said:
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Low sex drive may be the answer to many single mens problems! It may sound twisted but wit desperation at an all time high it seems that if men wanted sex less then there would be more balance in the male female interactions.. i.e. a high sex drive is only good if have access to a woman to use it on other wise it will be like feigning for crack.
I see some people have forgotten another way to lose your sex drive.....age. The older you get , the older women you go for , the longer you wait to have sex, the longer it takes to have sex will become a factor. Time is always against you in everything and there is a difference between a 22 yr old womens sex drive and say a 33yr old's.
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I've read the same thing, but not really experienced it. I think as I get older, I just get better at getting into a girl's pants more quickly and often. I have a 31 y/o gf who would be happy to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. I've never had her tell me 'no.'
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.